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[linkkiller31]

well im just sayin why rush into love. well when your younger dating is fine but why love all a sudden. one reason when holidays come people feel lonely and lame. like me oh well. well tell me do you rush in or stay out for a while

[tempted]

Well like i said in some other thread i'm single by choice and i'm happy so far with my situation but i do think that rushing into things is not a very good thing, i think that after a relationship ended a person should take some time for themselves and to put his/her head and heart straight so they can be able to get into another relationship but without any rush...but i also think that being in love is a very beautiful thing, it's the meaning of life, people need to have someone to share the good things with or else life looses it's sence....what's the use in having a great life if you don't have anyone to share it with....

[Cannibal Clown]

I guess i feel that the reason "fools" rush in like that during the holidays like this one, is because they feel like there's something wrong with them if they can't say that they have someone to feel all emotional over and whatnot during these times. Some people will find a girl who they feel is perfect for them, and instantly falling in love with them, not necessarily taking in the idea that maybe there is someone else for you, or that the person in question doesn't want you half as bad as you want them. Il Palazzo and i have a friend who has a big problem with this. He met a girl a few years back, and instantly fell in love with her. And fell hard. The thing is that eevn after he confesser his love to her, she tried her best to make it clear that she "neevr ever" wants to be in a relationship because she will "never ever" love him. Well, she didn't do a good enough job with that i guess, bercause he's still obsessed with her, and eevryone knows it, and we all laugh at it like it's some kind of joke, becaue to us, it seems that way. I came to the conclusion that the reason he loves her so much is because he wouyldn't know what to do if he stopped loving her, it's something that has been inprinted into his heart mind and soul. he doesn't believe that he will find anyone better than her, and he may not, but he won't even except the idea that there may be someone else for him, who he may come to love, and get the same feelings from the other. He seems to be a classic example of a fool rushing into love. I rush in a lot, but i also know whether or not something is futile, and i never let myself fall that deeply to the point that i can't let go. But of course, valentines day coming up makes me wish that i did have someone, and does make it easier to notice how much i really do feel for certain people that i don't feel as strongly during other times of the year.

[linkkiller31]

ya i agree with you both. ive rushed into to many things and either lost it blew it or made a big mistake. Well ya im used to being alone so thats about it.