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[Vic Viper]

Glad to know your feeling much better.

[happy_doughnut]

Well, it's nice to see who you trust

It's good to know you're feeling better now, but really, I can't believe you'd be so hard on yourself for something you really had no control over. I mean, hello ! So what dammit ?!
You can't go around feeling sorry for yourself just because something didn't go the exact way you wanted it to. What good does it do to drown yourself in self-pity, or even worse, get drunk ? None !
The stuff's gonna be there still, so there really is no point.
If something went wrong, or if something didn't happen the way you wanted it to, well, too bad. You can't go aroun dwelling in remorse because that really does no good to the situation.

This wasn't her fault, nor was it yours either. You really can't blame anyone because there is no one to blame. She didn't want to... Ok then. Go find someone else. I mean, it's not like you're not going to find a damn woman in this world. There are plenty !
And so what if you still are ? Why does that make you feel bad ?
If you want to find a decent girl, then you should know that they would be glad to hear that. You do realize that, right ?

*sigh* Really, I know what THATS like... ugh.
I know it sounds strange coming from me since... well, you know how optimistic I am But I can assure you of one thing :
You can't go around feeling sorry for yourself due to matters that weren't in your control in the first place.
There are very many times in life where things won't go the way you want them to. Sometimes, ther ARE for the better, and sometimes they're not. Whatever the case may be, you have to know that in the end, you'll onle have yourself. If you don't care for yourself, no one else will. This goes for all of the ' other ' things...
You know that they say : ' There are plenty of fish in the sea. '
But you also have to know the differences, and know where to look to find what suits you more. So, sincerely : It didn't happen... get over it and move on, Frozen.

[Frozen]

Mena, don't call me Frozen Not you.

I may just make it clear... I actually got drunk in the party, while the things were happening.... I didn't get drunk because I was sad about it afterhand. I was already drunk.

And your absolutely right. Things happen for the better or for the worse. I think now that it happened for the better. And I don't blame her either. No hatred I have for her. She did the wise thing. What she shouldn't have said in a first moment is the fact that she wanted to go to bed with me..... if I just didn't know that, I would have not got any hopes or anything, ya know? Then when I found out it could not happen, that's when I got all upset.

Well, what I have very clear is the fact that I have been alone for such a long time..... so I am very sensitive in all this matters. Added to that the fact that whenever I do something wrong, or THINK that I did something wrong... I just kick on myself so hard that it hurts

Hugs and kisses for everyone. Yes, I'm Bi (I'm just kidding )You guys don't know how happy I feel that you cared and wasted some of your precious time helping to grow up this little maturity of mine

It's very much appreciated.