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[xtreemgmr84]

I'm in love again - finally! I can't stop thinking about her... the way she smells, the way she laughs, her eyes, her hair... (sigh). It's been SOOO long since I've been this infatuated. Does anyone know what I mean? It wasn't until I felt the butterflies again that I realized just how long it's been since I last developed a crush on someone.

[Chara]

Its a good feeling but carried over a long time it can become a bad one...

I had this HUGE crush on this girl ever since I first saw her in the 8th grade. It went on for a long time. After a while I fell in love with this chick I met in boot camp. Sweetest thing you ever met.

When I met up with the girl I had a crush on (by now its over with) she said she had a crush on me also. Thing about it was we were too shy to ask each other.

The one phrase that she said which fills me so much with regret:

"What could have been, huh?"

I still regret never asking her out to this day.

Great... now I got myself all sad...

[goodman]

Oops, now we know your a guy, so its outta the bag!

Puppie love is for the dogs and eventually disappears...

Lets see what others think over at psxe as it goes forth...


https://209.120.143.51/vbullforum/sho...&threadid=1899

[Redpyramidhead]

Originally posted by goodman

Oops, now we know your a guy, so its outta the bag!

Puppie love is for the dogs and eventually disappears...

Goodman, although I know quite a bit about what you are talking about, I don't feel there is a need to try and burst this guys bubble without knowing all the facts behind this "love" that he is speaking of. In fact, there may even be no bubble to burst. Believe me, I would be the first to be skeptical about this after things that I have been through other than you who is probably one of the wisest one's here due to age, but also consider the fact that what xtremegamer is feeling or thinks he's feeling is normal for his age. Actually, I'm not sure what I'm trying to say except that this is something I've been trying to understand lately, this topic. My brother is 32 and he's had a lot of different girls to deal with over the years. I haven't had as many relationships being only 22 and all, but I have a bit of wisdom to share. It's late and maybe I'll get into any wisdom I might have later, but I will say that maybe it is possible for "puppy love" as you call it, to turn into something more as the original stage of it dissipates and becomes something else, as long as the couple has gotten to the point where they can handle the transition together into the next stage. I mean is it not possible that successful relationships can start many different ways? I mean... that is my belief atleast. As long as people can grow together and into eachother so they respect eachother in every way they possibly can including the ways they had to learn to be able to do for eachother. Man, relationships are so complicated, and everybody knows this or atleast should know that a million things them and their partner couldn't have possibly foreseen in the first stages together can go wrong or maybe we could use a less harsh word like bumpy. Things will always get bumpy.

The last thing I would say for now is that extreme, you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, which it sounds like you may be about to do. All I can say is that's something you kind of have to figure out on your own the meaning of to get fully, but I hope you atleast have an idea.

PEACE and may Love continue to be a wonderful thing to aspire for. It is part of what makes us human in my humble opinion.

_RED_ stuff

[goodman]

Originally posted by Redpyramidhead
PEACE and may Love continue to be a wonderful thing to aspire for. It is part of what makes us human in my humble opinion.

_RED_ stuff

Wow, RPH, your going deep there!

[dan da man]

me, the guys only had 8 posts and posting this.


Well, honestly thats great news for you pal.

[happy_doughnut]

Originally posted by Redpyramidhead

Goodman, although I know quite a bit about what you are talking about, I don't feel there is a need to try and burst this guys bubble without knowing all the facts behind this "love" that he is speaking of. In fact, there may even be no bubble to burst. Believe me, I would be the first to be skeptical about this after things that I have been through other than you who is probably one of the wisest one's here due to age, but also consider the fact that what xtremegamer is feeling or thinks he's feeling is normal for his age. Actually, I'm not sure what I'm trying to say except that this is something I've been trying to understand lately, this topic. My brother is 32 and he's had a lot of different girls to deal with over the years. I haven't had as many relationships being only 22 and all, but I have a bit of wisdom to share. It's late and maybe I'll get into any wisdom I might have later, but I will say that maybe it is possible for "puppy love" as you call it, to turn into something more as the original stage of it dissipates and becomes something else, as long as the couple has gotten to the point where they can handle the transition together into the next stage. I mean is it not possible that successful relationships can start many different ways? I mean... that is my belief atleast. As long as people can grow together and into eachother so they respect eachother in every way they possibly can including the ways they had to learn to be able to do for eachother. Man, relationships are so complicated, and everybody knows this or atleast should know that a million things them and their partner couldn't have possibly foreseen in the first stages together can go wrong or maybe we could use a less harsh word like bumpy. Things will always get bumpy.

The last thing I would say for now is that extreme, you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, which it sounds like you may be about to do. All I can say is that's something you kind of have to figure out on your own the meaning of to get fully, but I hope you atleast have an idea.

PEACE and may Love continue to be a wonderful thing to aspire for. It is part of what makes us human in my humble opinion.

_RED_ stuff

Love, hmm, it must be a nice feeling .

In anycase, not to sound pessimistic or anything, but just make sure you don't leave yourself wide open for a heartbreaking moment. This infatuation you might feel now may be the cause of a sore heart later. But even so, hopefully this feeling lasts. It's nice to see people in love.

[MakgSnake]

Blukh, its the love thread again ....... still congrats man.

[Frozen]

Love is only nice when it comes back and forth, when it is only one person havig the feeling for another, is just a pile of utter shit and hurts like hell.

I hate that shit.

[dan da man]

Originally posted by Frozen

when it is only one person havig the feeling for another, is just a pile of utter shit and hurts like hell.

I hate that shit.

Dont we all know that, the feeling is horrible.

[Pu the Owl]

When you're in love, everything seems so beautiful, you're right.
Infatuation is not exactly love, anyway. And it seems you're talking about infatuation here.

But next time you could try to use different words, instead of copying and pasting from other forums Just in case there's someone around who visits both of them

[Nelo]

I fell in love with a girl when I was in the 9th grade. I was so shy, and still a little, and I went to ask her one day STRAIGHT whether she liked me or not. It was also a straight NO.. I was so depressed, thought I'm not good enough for anyone. Oh, the misery.. Fortunately I'm now over it.
Couple of years later I had a big crush with another beautiful girl. I haven't asked her anything, and probably won't. That first one kinda left eternal scars.
Hope I'll get completely over her someday.
Now I sound too sissy and stop typing.

[Virtualeclipse]

Yes I know what you mean. It feels really good. It feels better when you know that she likes you. Good luck.