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[IcyMourdor]

This is your decision. No one is forcing you to go. If you are leaving over something as petty as this, then I wish you would reconsider.

[happy_doughnut]

*sigh* How evil...
Okay okay, lemme explain :

First of all, I know S4H said the he was the one with the idea. That's not true. I added just as much to it as he did, therefore, it was us two. What happened was that we were talking and he asked if a member could put the -banned- tittle. I didn't know so he tried it, said it wasn't working for him, I try, works for me fine, the server decides to get busy, we can't change it back. After that, we had the idea to make this a joke. You know, our lil cult.
We never intended to cause confusion or anything of the sort.
We just didn't think that this act could have caused all of this chaos. Afterall, it was a joke...

About me. Okay, when I first got notified, no one else did, I was the first. Later, I was explained that that was because you guys had noticed only my rank, and after noticing theirs', you notified them as well. But you see, I didn't know this since today.
So yes, I did feel upset ( well, a little ) that you guys had assumed I was the one who started this so quicky. I was NOT offended, just upset. I was just put on the spot by 3 admins and 1 mod. Come on... I didn't know what to say !

I told Had that it made me feel kind of awkward knowing that the admins. thought I was so evil ! I mean, everyone says I'm evil.. but when Fortune sends a PM... =O ! . Again, at that time, the other guys hadn't received messages cuz you guys hadn't noticed yet. So in fact, I was the only one =/ ( at that time )

It's hard to believe that we attracted so much attention.
I thought you guys were angry I mean, getting PMed by 3 admins telling you to change it ( and since... well, ask Rei about how I feel about Admins... ), it didn't exactly feel like friendly.

I thought everything was worked out, though. I mean, Fortune sent me a killer teddy-bear. I told Rei I was a terrorist . Hmm... *sigh*

What really upsets me is the fact that S4H is leaving... *sniffle*
What can I say ? If he leaves... I'm going too . It's only right

[Pu the Owl]

Mena, I think S4H is leaving mainly because he thinks you wanted to leave too and because he thinks you are still "upset". And frankly I think S4H thinks that people around here are angry with him. But Nobody is angry. Someone was angry at the beginning maybe, or it seemed so.
I don't know what to say anymore. I tried to reassure everyone around here, but if it doesn't work, I think you are the one who can tell him this is not an important matter anymore.
Side note: I don't know why you're so scared of administrators... we're not much older than you, and we don't even eat human meat...

[Carlito]

Mena we contacted you more than once, because we haven't decided, as you may suppose, "It's up to you to contact her!", "No, It's up to you!". We had the same idea, but Fortune sent the message to S4H few minutes after she sent it to you. His absence during that day is the reason why it seemed that you were the only one to receive messages. I sent messages as well, but not to you in particular way. I got online later, so I knew the names of the other persons because Harry told me who was involved. And it was me to change the status of people who were still "banned".

Originally posted by Spirit
So do you really think people are going to remmember you as a 'bad' person with one little joke? Of course not, so cheer up and get back, not that any of you already didn't.
One more thing I really want everyone to know is that 'I'm leaving' is probably the worst thing to do, and thats what makes people remmember you as a "bad" person, by telling them you're leaving >.<

That's what I think too, more or less. The joke is over and you're making it a lot bigger than it is. This thing will be forgotten if you start posting and talking like you used too. Otherwise I think people will remember for a longer time, noticing your absence. It's just a suggestion, but do as you wish.

[Infernal Mass]

i just want to say that the mods/admins here are great..and all the members are great too.

*passes chicken and biscuits out to everyone*

[Carlito]

Chicken and biscuits...together?!

[Hylas]

Hadoken: I think Mena is old and smart enough to defend herself. You judged the reactions of other people in a way that sounds somewhat not really complete.
I don't know what happened exactly, but from what I know I'm sure nobody's intention was to offend or hurt others. Let's move on and don't start thinking about leaving only for those silly reasons. Saying you're upset for how this joke went is wrong. It's not the right way to face problems. Those are not serious matters... it can happen everyday to have some little troubles for jokes or words that are taken in a way that was not in your purposes.
Can all the time spent here be ruined for a couple of days and some words that you could have taken too much seriously? I say no. At least it shouldn't.



*grabs Kabuki's cookies*

[TtTackler]

Originally posted by Carlito
Chicken and biscuits...together?!

Rofl!

At this point this is just wasting the admins typing skills which could be put to good use for more reviews and previews! *takes out whip* Get to work! *whippish*

[IcyMourdor]

This thread doesn't seem to be helping. People are saying things that aren't working.

Mena and S4H, I hope you will reconsider about leaving as you both are great members and we would all miss you both.

Before someone else says something that they may regret, I'm going to close this. The admins can reopen if they need to.