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[Hero]

Man it's hard to meet a right girl.

I've gone through 8 girlfriends to date, and it seems like every girl I meet, although I'm more experienced, finds a weird, cruel and unusual way to screw me over.

Most recently, I met this girl... She was a 10/10 in the looks and personality factor. Little did I know, this was the weird thing about her. She wanted to have a crush on me, but she didn't want to go out with me. Meaning, she had feelings for me up the wazoole, but she didn't wanna date me because all she wanted to do was have a crush on me. What's up with that?

[Piggle_humsy]

That is seriously weird! I mean what's up with that? She's a freak! what kind of person would do that? if I fancied someone I would be chuffed to bits they wanted to date me, not say "Um well no I think i'll just fancy you from afar thanks!"

Seriously weird!

Piggle
x x x x

p.s Don't brand all females with this weirdness as we are not all like that!

[Infernal Mass]

It's a strange, strange world..









DigiMortal
- i also have my own fan club

[dan da man]

That some weird shit....but you will find the right person, and dont forget you look quite young.

[Berserker]

No offense, but maybe she only likes the way you look and she doesn't like your personality....anyway you don't need girls like her there are plenty other fish in the sea you will meet misses right...

[Sleazy P Martini]

How old are you Hero? Fairly young I'm guessing from your pics. If I was your age and had a wicked bike.....pffft relationship?!?!?!? Hell no!!!! I'd be having fun.

[Carlito]

Love exists, but that wasn't love. Pretty simple...

Every girl has her own taste and way of behaving, so don't worry, you'll meet another one in the next future!

[MakgSnake]

It doesn't,...... thats what I BELIEVE in. Love is a Fluke.....simple as that.

[fantasytiger]

ok first Hero you are extremely sexy

do not say love does not exsists because I believe that there is someone for everyone. You seem like a really sweet guy don't you dare let anyone make you question love. A piece of advise thats getting me through this crazy life whenever you enter a relationship or develope feelings for someone always keep that doubt. I am not saying every relationship will fail but keep that relization that it could. That way if it does you can say yeah it was great I thought it could have been more but I guess not and you can move on. Second never become someone else stay true to yourself if a girl really loves you she will never force you to stray from the real you unless its something that could save your life. The sea of love is rough don't drown you will reach the shore soon and just maybe your princess will be waiting for you

P.s If you ever come down to Detroit I can hook you up lololol

[Kimahri]

Don't spend all your time looking for the right girl, cause there is none.
Maybe to you there is, but there is not.
You only love somebody, and there is nobody perfect in this life.
If you love a girl, just date her, and marry her.
You will not be all nice to her, you will have problems, which everyone does, but in your eyes, she will be the right person, and to you you will not be able to find one thing about her that is an imperfection, but others may.
That's love, and also the girl must not be a *lu* and a cheater.
Believe it or not.

[Hero]

Originally posted by MakgSnake

It doesn't,...... thats what I BELIEVE in. Love is a Fluke.....simple as that.

Exact same thing I was thinking.

I mean I don't like to be a "player" and go on dating frenzies. I work out because I want to live a long life, not because I want a girl to look at my gut and say "Wow he has a sixxer!"

Oh and she told me my personality was one of the things she liked the most...

I don't know, I guess it's like he said, you'll think that girl is the one, but she's not and you're just going to have problems.

I'm cursed. Hopefully I can at least get a girl that thinks I'm cute and is cute in return, but that's a little farfetched.

[XxmandykissezxX]

Well, it doesn't ALWAYS have to be about the looks. If a girl has an awesome personality, and likes you for who you are..wouldn't you still date her? I mean, you aren't always going to get what you want.

*Tries to speak the truth, and I hope i'm not being to harsh on anyone*

[happy_doughnut]

I think love exists... sure, it's out there... somewhere.
However, I don't think this love exists for everyone. *shrug*

But I think Carlito said it best: What that girl "felt" for you was obviously not "love", but a simple crush, or something else of the like.
I'm also guessing you're pretty young, so I'm not sure why you should be worried... you still have a ways to go

And although this isn't from personal experience, I've known people who couldn't seem to find that "right" person, but when they did, it really seemed like it was worth the effort.

DigiMortal
- i also have my own fan club

... yeah, and you're the only one in it.

[Hero]

What's the first thing you notice about a person when you barely meet them, and they haven't said a word?

The answer to that question is why I used to not care much about looks, but then I realized... We only live once, why settle for something and not shoot for the best if we only have one shot?

EDIT: Oh and I'm 18 BTW.

[IcyMourdor]

I'm probably not one to be speaking about love, seeing as I seem to make every possible mistake in a relationship.

I think you should just get over it and move on. After all, you are only 18. It isn't like life is over.

[Infernal Mass]

Originally posted by ZeroSniper



... yeah, and you're the only one in it.

bah! you're just evil incarnate.

DigiMortal
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[Lost_myth]

She's the stalker type or the smart type.

Love happens sometimes unexpectedly. Open your eyes.
Love developes, you can't just find it like you would a penny.

[XxmandykissezxX]

Originally posted by Hero

The answer to that question is why I used to not care much about looks, but then I realized... We only live once, why settle for something and not shoot for the best if we only have one shot?

EDIT: Oh and I'm 18 BTW.

Yea but then what happens to the people who are not so great looking? Most of them never have wives or husbands. And the way I see it is, most of the "cute guys" are not so cute, they can be the meanest person on the face of the Earth. That's why I settle for the guys with personality and I don't shoot for the looks.

I'm still young though, so I don't have to worry about anything really. And I don't think you should worry about anything right now either, Hero. You'll probably meet a girl in college .

[Uchiha Sasuke]

Originally posted by MakgSnake

It doesn't,...... thats what I BELIEVE in. Love is a Fluke.....simple as that.

Makg I tend to agree with you man.I'm 18 years old, good looking, extremely talented and theres not one girl interested in me.I'm modest to everyone, kind, and I get shit.It just seems to me that some people get a little screwed over.I love this one girl to death, I would do anything for her, she knows it.But yet theres like no chemisty there even though I would probably end up being the nicest guy she'd met.Then theres CC (cannibal clown) nicest freakin guy I ever met.He gets the shit end too.He has a women that he would do anything for.He's nice to her but she doesn't even notice him half the time or his feelings and I feel so bad for him.It seems the very nicest people get the worst.While others with a little bit of a different agenda get the women.Now on hero's topic.Hero I know your a good and decent guy that wants to settle down with a nice girl.I just hope the right girl comes around and she also notices you.Be sure to be careful though lots of the women in this world are mainly in it for model looks and lots of money even though they might say different.I been screwed over alot by these types.

Also one final note on the no love thing by Makg

Rember this from MGS : Psycho Mantis(Slighty modified of course............Most humans are filled with the same twisted obsession to pass on ones exsistance.

[Preventer Wind]

Love exists. It is just hard to find. If you want to go for what you find the perfect woman to be then you will probably search for a long time. What will you do if you find a woman more attractive then the one you will be with at the time? Seems like most people here think you are good looking so you have that going for you. You are 18, you have many years ahead of you and you should spend the next couple setting yourself up financially so you don't have to worry about that. Most women only cost you money and trouble at a young age.

If you are a kind person who treats people well then you should not change that for anybody. I don't care if people treat you like crap. There is no reason why you should who are for someone no matter how much they love you, unless that change is to fix a flaw in your character.

My feelings about women are mixed. I've never loved a girl so much it drove me crazy or it made me a different person. Most teenagers are stupid and ruin their lives over the dumbest things. Dating is one of these things. So many guys use women just for sex it's not funny. The problem is that most women let them do it again and again. It pains me to see how dumb kids are. They think smoking and having sex are the two coolest things in life. I find it no big deal that (Insert Name) lost his virginity at the age of 13. Or that this guy and girl had sex last night.

It makes me sick that guys brag about it when it is something that has been done billions of times before. It also makes me sick that women let themselves fall into relationships with the worst kind of people. It's even worse when they won’t get out of that relationship.

The fact that there are so many kind people that get stepped on is due to the fact that some people don't take love or other people's feelings seriously. They are out there only for themselves.

These are just my opinions and are sure to change in the future...I could have put more but I don't won't to sound like some old man