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[Hero]

Well maybe things are looking up.

That girl that only wanted to have a crush on me, I guess she suddenly realized that she really liked my koolaid or something.

She called me and asked me if I could take her somewhere this Saturday because she wants to spend time with me.

Love doesn't exist, but for now, I'll hope it does and try to hit it off with this girl.

[dan da man]

Originally posted by Hero

Well maybe things are looking up.

That girl that only wanted to have a crush on me, I guess she suddenly realized that she really liked my koolaid or something.

She called me and asked me if I could take her somewhere this Saturday because she wants to spend time with me.

Love doesn't exist, but for now, I'll hope it does and try to hit it off with this girl.

Congrats hero, see just give it some time and it pays off.

[ssjtrunks13]

I guess you've had at least one date, Hero. I wonder how my first date will be.

[Hero]

I've been on plenty of dates... Dates aren't at all what they're hyped up to be on TV or anything like that.

All it is, is you trying to get her to like you more and more, and her showing you personality traits that she doesn't hold.

First dates are always lame.

Either way, I hope this date goes well.

[ssjtrunks13]

It looks like I'm once again free. I'll be alright, there's no use in thinking about it too much. Good Luck with the date.

[Redpyramidhead]

Originally posted by goodman

Were always free, Trunks, it doesnt matter if we feel were in a relationship or not. Its a matter of freeing yourself from restraints that you put on a relationship.... A person will love you more if you dont restrain them or try and keep them from what they want to be.

One can tell that you have a lot of wisdom to give on this subject. You've helped the confused hearts of people in this thread better than I can just be repeated most of whats been said already.

That is why ive mentioned before that i simply love the human form to really want to feel restrained to just appreciating one person, because all in all i just simply love the essence of women too much to really want to restrain myself to just the enjoyment of one!!

Heh Goodman...whether you have somehow taken the act of being a player to a more sophisticated and appreciative level is arguable, but it actually makes one have to think that that may be exactly what you have done. Either you are a genius or one crazy dude Keep doin your thing man if that's what yanks your chain!

i was going to write a whole thing of advice for people, which I used to do a lot back in the day, but I have doubts of my advice helping anybody so I won't put anything unless people really want to hear. If so, let me know and I'll talk about my experiences a little maybe. Other than that...all I can say is a lot of you are really young and I know it's easier said than done, but you should realize that you have plenty of time and needn't worry about finding love so much yet. Love is a huge thing. Just enjoy hte relationships you have without worrying about huge life long things yet. Allow yourselves to be young. Don't miss out on enjoying relationships to their fullest like I did cuz I was worried about love at such a young age where I shouldnt have worried about it. Of course that 15 year old girl didnt love me back way back in sophomore year of high school. She was too young to love and so was I even though I didnt know it. I hope that comment does not upset anyone. It's just that you have to learn certain things. You don't have to learn how to care abou tsomebody, but you have to learn about other things that you would never think about in a million years in a day at that age. Seriously, give yourselves a break and enjoy life. PEACE everyone

_RED_ stuff

[merylsilverburg]

Argh...late again. But good luck Hero.

Anyway, I agree the most on what Fortune, goodman, and Red said...to be short, there is love but it just takes time to find it.

My opinion: (please don't take the wrong way people, if anyone gets offended, I'm sorry)
I don't see what's the whole deal with the love business. I agree with the three people I mentioned above, but I personally think that love isn't really a main priority, at least to me. I hear so many people complaining (not online, mind you because online, I don't know the people personally) about the lack of relationships and "dates" they've been on and to be blunt, it's all the same and pretty boring. For those who found your soul mate, I'm more than happy for you. But for those who haven't, I say just be patient and wait. I'm so tired of hearing people (in my school, especially) weep and complain about people not able to find "their true love" when they're so young! They act as if they don't have their older years ahead of them. I'd say that dating as a teen is merely an experience to prepare themselves for finding someone in the future, when they're older. I don't like how these young people are constantly on the "dating frenzy" and hooking up with the next person they see, considering them "the one". How can you say that? There are tons of people out there who are probably a much better match for you than that person you're having a "fling" with in High School. So why the desperate search? Confuses me, really. But, this is not to say that I don't think that teenagers shouldn't date. They can, but I don't think they should go on saying that person is the one they want to spend the rest of their life with.
Like Red said, just be patient and enjoy life (I'm saying this to young people). Sure, go ahead and date but as you get older, let your past experiences help you find a better match, if you're unable to find that person during your younger years. Love is a constant cycle that'll never end, it seems. But in the end, I'm pretty sure that everyone has that "special someone" waiting for them. It just takes time and patience.

On a note, I'm not saying that I'm completely "wise" on this topic because I've never been interested in dating or any of this, but what I said here is just merely from what I've been hearing and seeing.

So, for those who disagree with me, I'm prepared to take the bashing and flaming.

[Beretta55]

And 4 page's later........i come but anyway i totally argee with you meryl. i do belive kid's at young age's should have fun and not worry about the stresses of dating and all that. that's why i thought everyone in 3rd,4th and 5th grade were weird. they were all worrying about dating even though they were about 10 i havent got a date.....ever and look how i turned out. (dont answer that) but anyway hero. love is a game that can kick you in the ass many time's. even though your problem is probally already solved. but hang in there you will find the one for you. as for me i will cuddle up next to my PC for the next couple of year's

[ssjtrunks13]

Originally posted by merylsilverburg

So, for those who disagree with me, I'm prepared to take the bashing and flaming.

I would never bach you. Goodman, I kinda get what you're syaing, that's a very interesting thought.