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[Hylas]

you absolutely want to go out with a chick/dude? What's your personal strategy to invite them for a date?

[MakgSnake]

I dont know, while talking to her, going with a flow....something pops up and I spit it out........you have to be talking to her for quite some time though. Just saying "Hi, wanna go on a date"...... doesn't really work at times.

But I havn't really asked any of my girls at first. I really should in the future.

[RexNorton]

if you talk to them on a regular basis it souldn't be too hard. talk about movies, clubs or food...mmmmmm time to eat.

[Killuminati]

all ya have to do is talk regulary, and of cuorse mack em. after awhile u should make it obvious that your interested

[Sword 4 Hire]

What I do is I just try and flirt a little, y'know make em laugh and what not, and if I'm gettin feedback from that I'll take it from there

[Hadoken]

Originally posted by Killuminati
and of cuorse mack em

yeaahh, that usually works.
well... it works for me!!

[Rei]

Convincing guys to go out is not that difficult, at least that's my experience. You just have to talk to them make them feel "important" in some way, like always asking suggestions, demonstrating you're interested when they talk (even when, yeah, you find their converstations a bit boring...). If you add massive huggling and compliments, you're almost done.

[IcyMourdor]

Originally posted by Rei
Convincing guys to go out is not that difficult, at least that's my experience. You just have to talk to them make them feel "important" in some way, like always asking suggestions, demonstrating you're interested when they talk (even when, yeah, you find their converstations a bit boring...). If you add massive huggling and compliments, you're almost done.

She just basically described the Y chromosome.

I say become friends with the girl first. At least you get to know the person first and then have your foot in the door. I've known my current gf for three years before going out.

[Rei]

Originally posted by Mourdor
She just basically described the Y chromosome.

Exactly, that's what are, unluckily, most of the guys I knew. Horrible, isn't it?

[IcyMourdor]

Hey, just need to find that one-in-a-million guy that isn't like that and you're set.

[Rei]

Originally posted by Mourdor
Hey, just need to find that one-in-a-million guy that isn't like that and you're set.

Thanks Mourdor, dear, now I feel relieved

[AudioBoxer]

I dont need to do that cus I already do have a G/F, but when I was single I used Flowers they always worked

[MakgSnake]

Originally posted by Mourdor
I've known my current gf for three years before going out.

Good for you, but 3 years alot of time before making a move on something like that. I mean.........I wouldn't go out with a good friend of mine for some reason. Not saying anything to you Mourdor.

Me, before going out with any girl..........have to know her for atleast 2 weeks. (Hangin out, just chillin). Thats perfect for me.

[IcyMourdor]

Originally posted by MakgSnake
Good for you, but 3 years alot of time before making a move on something like that.

Yes, I know that is sad, but I guess I really had no interest in her until about two weeks before we started going out.

I mean.........I wouldn't go out with a good friend of mine for some reason. Not saying anything to you Mourdor.

No problem, we all have our own standards and we live by the choices we make. I have no regrets.

Originally posted by Rei
Thanks Mourdor, dear, now I feel relieved

Lol, anything I can do to help.

[RexNorton]

geez, i don't think i've lived anywhere for three years letalone knew someone for 3

i'm almost jealous

[Ninja]

cute Asian girl, 5th grade, I was really shy, I would always like chill with her and stuff, knew her for a while, i really wanted 2 ask her out but I couldn't. on the 6th grade I asked her out, we've been going out ever since(i'm in 8th now), and she loves megaman, and FF. (I really think im in love).

[happy_doughnut]

Dating ? What's that ?
I can't say I remember having this experience. Last time I had a... ugh. *shame*

Meh, most of my "dating" comes from love simulation videogames. Quite fun, really. You can basically date any guy from an anime/game that you like... which, hehehe... they're just so kyoot .

*gets looks* Ah, bah... Piro

[Cannibal Clown]

My God, if I ever actually had a chanse with a girl, at all, i might actually take this thread seriously, but as history in my life shows, chicks don't find me much of anything, and it doesn't seem like i have much of a chanse with anyone in the slightest. The only time i found a girl who i really liked, and actually liked me back, ended up going back to Russia at the end of the summer. So that was a pile of sh*t and a half. And then the whole idea that people find me as a retard, looser, moron, dumbass, idiot, ect... leaves me with the idea that i'll probally never have enough self esteem to ever get the balls to ask a girl out is like one in a billion. And then there is the whole story about Liz, who i finally did express my fealings toward, and she gave me an answer that i loved more than i could ever possibly imagine. But she has a boyfriend and has mad it known that they will probally never break up...ever. So luck with me and the opposite of sex hasn't shown pleasable for me. And the only way i can actually ask a girl out, is if it's like, totally bluntly, saying, you wanna do something later if you have nothing better to do?

So that's it i guess. Damn,

[MakgSnake]

Originally posted by Cannibal Clown
The only time i found a girl who i really liked, and actually liked me back, ended up going back to Russia at the end of the summer

I hate when that happens, I seriously do hate that! But CC, Ive seen your pics, like Ive said before, you are pretty good looking chap buddy. Seriously.

[Hylas]

Originally posted by Cannibal Clown
The only time i found a girl who i really liked, and actually liked me back, ended up going back to Russia at the end of the summer.

That often happens, especially if we talk about summer dating and relationships. They're not made to last log, you know. It's a shame, but hey, you're not the only one who experienced this CC. So cheer up, man: next time it's better for you to like a girl which is not from Russia, but from a nearest place :laugh jk