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Ive read through from what Zoox, Berserker, and Red had to say, and its true that there is no hurry in making a choice in someone because of the fact that the right choice you make wont be one that is made in haste. Oh, and Berserker, what you were saying is true here in America as well as your own country... I think part of the reason that its so hard to make a match between two people is that people are quite selfish nowadays, and simply dont want to take the time to get to know someone, they want to do what they want to do, and when they want to do it... So although i do suggest that a young person try to meet someone they are compatible with before they get too old and most of the people out there are strung out peeps in dire situations, its smart to pick and choose those that you do consider, which is hard sometimes when your lonely and desiring to be in a relationship. Yet, the heartache you save yourself is better than the heartache you create for yourself by getting involved in a bad situation from the start... Im dating someone nine years older than myself and putting up with some noticeable quirks, and im sure she is with me also, there is a lot of give and take in a relationship, if peoples main concerns are themselves then they will end up by themselves eventually...
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