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Cannibal Clown · Oct 21st, 2003, 11:33 AM

18 years old, never once had a girlfriend, or even a girl who was at all interested in me. That's something that can really bring down someone's ego. I've always beena nice guy, kind, concerning, generous, a gentelmen when the time calls for it, and every time, the prep, jerk, guy with big muscles, lot's of money, better car, and cocky friends always seems to get the girl. It's bull shit. I had a conversation with a girl that i liked about this issue, and she agreed, that generally a girl will lean toward the one who will make her seem or feel more wanted/popular/cool.

Even though they want that sort of guy who actually cares for them, and won't go on a testosterone ego trip in front of every other guy, they still seem to always need that sense of a stereotypical "man" to be by their sides. As a sort of look that they have to live up to.

To me, it seems that the kind of guy a girl wants relects the kind of guy a girl's friends would mostly approve of, or even be jelous of. And it usually gets worse the more attractive they are. The hottest girl in school, will go for nothing less than the coolest, most attractive, jock in the school. Usually just to live up to their social standards.

I've never been considered one of the "cool"people. And i was never a shop rat, never physically inclined at anything, not suave, or intellegent, or loaded with cash, good car, or a car at all for the most part, or able to put into any sort of class. I was the annoying energetic person who always became redundantly bothersome. But i was always a very nice and sweet person. And all of the girls who knew me saw it. This one girl, who was already in a very deep relationship with another person told me the honest truth, saying that i am a very nice and kind person, that if i tried i could easily make a girl very happy, but (yep, there's a but) my all about personality, and the things that come with being me, scares girls off, and "I" as a person, will always find it very hard to get a girl in any way.

That kinda killed my ego, froma girls perspective, me being a good guy, and the kinda person that every girl truely does want, will never get what i want because i'm not what they want. Damn it.

So i have to agree, nice guys finnish last, or sometimes, like mentioned before, never finnish at all.

Oct 21st, 2003, 11:33 AM	#10
Cannibal Clown Taijutsu Master Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Konoha Village Age: 40 Posts: 2,129	18 years old, never once had a girlfriend, or even a girl who was at all interested in me. That's something that can really bring down someone's ego. I've always beena nice guy, kind, concerning, generous, a gentelmen when the time calls for it, and every time, the prep, jerk, guy with big muscles, lot's of money, better car, and cocky friends always seems to get the girl. It's bull shit. I had a conversation with a girl that i liked about this issue, and she agreed, that generally a girl will lean toward the one who will make her seem or feel more wanted/popular/cool. Even though they want that sort of guy who actually cares for them, and won't go on a testosterone ego trip in front of every other guy, they still seem to always need that sense of a stereotypical "man" to be by their sides. As a sort of look that they have to live up to. To me, it seems that the kind of guy a girl wants relects the kind of guy a girl's friends would mostly approve of, or even be jelous of. And it usually gets worse the more attractive they are. The hottest girl in school, will go for nothing less than the coolest, most attractive, jock in the school. Usually just to live up to their social standards. I've never been considered one of the "cool"people. And i was never a shop rat, never physically inclined at anything, not suave, or intellegent, or loaded with cash, good car, or a car at all for the most part, or able to put into any sort of class. I was the annoying energetic person who always became redundantly bothersome. But i was always a very nice and sweet person. And all of the girls who knew me saw it. This one girl, who was already in a very deep relationship with another person told me the honest truth, saying that i am a very nice and kind person, that if i tried i could easily make a girl very happy, but (yep, there's a but) my all about personality, and the things that come with being me, scares girls off, and "I" as a person, will always find it very hard to get a girl in any way. That kinda killed my ego, froma girls perspective, me being a good guy, and the kinda person that every girl truely does want, will never get what i want because i'm not what they want. Damn it. So i have to agree, nice guys finnish last, or sometimes, like mentioned before, never finnish at all. __________________ If you could see the future, would you try to change it? Would you keep trying... even if you knew you would always fail?