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Hylas · Sep 30th, 2003, 02:44 PM

I think jealous people are always in need to be reassured of the relationship, that's why they often become paranoid. They also believe that a relationship is something similar to a possession, which is very wrong. They are often people who are not as strong as they pretend to be, speaking of feelings and maturity they're a bit confused about their limits, they're frail and constantly in need of certainties.
To be with someone who's really jealous, you have to be very strong, to not allow them to make you feel weak or on the wrong side. Making them feel special or necessary or important is also a good idea, if they're not exaggerating with their jealousy. If they are, better leaving them alone

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Sep 30th, 2003, 02:44 PM	#17
Hylas Now or Never Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Zürich Age: 42 Posts: 2,456	I think jealous people are always in need to be reassured of the relationship, that's why they often become paranoid. They also believe that a relationship is something similar to a possession, which is very wrong. They are often people who are not as strong as they pretend to be, speaking of feelings and maturity they're a bit confused about their limits, they're frail and constantly in need of certainties. To be with someone who's really jealous, you have to be very strong, to not allow them to make you feel weak or on the wrong side. Making them feel special or necessary or important is also a good idea, if they're not exaggerating with their jealousy. If they are, better leaving them alone