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Old Sep 30th, 2003, 01:45 PM   #13
Frozen
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Jealousy is a completely natural feeling.

Being jealous usually means that you care for that person. but there are different levels of jealousy, and you need to be careful to see which level of jealousy you are on.

I see it simple. When a person is on a relationship, which is supposed to be based on love means that this person has no eyes or heart other than to his/her loved one. However, this does not mean that he/she can not talk to another person of the opposite sex (I'm using an heterosexual relationship as an example).

But it is the way, that, say, the guy looks at other girls, and the way he talks to them, and looks at them, that it can be determined wether jealousy is justified or not.

So, in this case, I think, if Mr. Neo goes all happy around the school, slapping all the chicks butts, holding hands with them, kissing, or stuff of the kind, then I'll find it absolutely normal that missy tiger is pissed off at him. This means that Neo does not respect the compromise he has with Tiger, and as such probably means he does not really love her the way he says.

Now, if Mr. Neo has a lot of female friends, who he talks to, as FRIENDS, with respect from both sides, minimum or no flirting at all, then it is Tiger who has to solve her own problem if she finds herself jealous at this.

I don't mean to pry in any of ya'lls private lives or anything, but well, it's the way I see it, personally. If I had a girlfriend, I would not mind her looking at other guys, specially if such men are good looking, because it is human nature to look at people we are sexually attracted to, however, it would not just bother me, but actually piss the hell out of me if I noticed that she is not just looking at these guys, but actually staring at them, or worse, flirting with them. That's why some times it's so good to be single
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