ummm... well first of all wow, thats the amazing thing that you did for her.
The situation that you are in though, is one that I can relate too. When i started high school in grade 9, I got started into a relationship with a girl in one of my classes. It work really good to because we had 3 classes together and lunch and all that so we got to see each other all the time in school. During the next year of school our area of studies diversitized and we each started to see less and less of each other. As much as we liked each other our differences really started to show. I wish i would have done something like you have done. Maybe that would have made it easier for us to look past our differences and try and get things a little bit as they were b4. But that didnt happen happen and we ended up parting our seperate ways on good terms. Maybe with all the things that you have done for her, maybe you two might be able to find a way to
slowly bring back the communication (as like you said, is one of the most important part of a relationship)[I say
slowly because with women patients is a vertue (sp?) ]
As for your question. Should you have done it? Well I think I would have to reply to your question with another question. Whas it worth it. I know i've done many crazy things in my life time, some that i shouldn't have done and some that i should have. But usually when i look back at what I have done, I usually end up just asking myself if it was worth the while.
Usually if i look back and think it was worth, then it was something that i should have and am glad that i have done (this is not entirely true though only what works for me 75% of the time)!
well thats my 2 cents
ps.. i rarely look over posts b4 posting... beware of grammer mistakes!