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Originally posted by Redpyramidhead
Goodman, although I know quite a bit about what you are talking about, I don't feel there is a need to try and burst this guys bubble without knowing all the facts behind this "love" that he is speaking of. In fact, there may even be no bubble to burst. Believe me, I would be the first to be skeptical about this after things that I have been through other than you who is probably one of the wisest one's here due to age, but also consider the fact that what xtremegamer is feeling or thinks he's feeling is normal for his age. Actually, I'm not sure what I'm trying to say except that this is something I've been trying to understand lately, this topic. My brother is 32 and he's had a lot of different girls to deal with over the years. I haven't had as many relationships being only 22 and all, but I have a bit of wisdom to share. It's late and maybe I'll get into any wisdom I might have later, but I will say that maybe it is possible for "puppy love" as you call it, to turn into something more as the original stage of it dissipates and becomes something else, as long as the couple has gotten to the point where they can handle the transition together into the next stage. I mean is it not possible that successful relationships can start many different ways? I mean... that is my belief atleast. As long as people can grow together and into eachother so they respect eachother in every way they possibly can including the ways they had to learn to be able to do for eachother. Man, relationships are so complicated, and everybody knows this or atleast should know that a million things them and their partner couldn't have possibly foreseen in the first stages together can go wrong or maybe we could use a less harsh word like bumpy. Things will always get bumpy.
The last thing I would say for now is that extreme, you shouldn't put all your eggs in one basket, which it sounds like you may be about to do. All I can say is that's something you kind of have to figure out on your own the meaning of to get fully, but I hope you atleast have an idea.
PEACE and may Love continue to be a wonderful thing to aspire for. It is part of what makes us human in my humble opinion. 
_RED_ stuff
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Love, hmm, it must be a nice feeling
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In anycase, not to sound pessimistic or anything, but just make sure you don't leave yourself wide open for a heartbreaking moment. This infatuation you might feel now may be the cause of a sore heart later. But even so, hopefully this feeling lasts. It's nice to see people in love.
