Or maybe can't do anything, but tolerate, even when you take a stand against such exclusion, like when it happens to me. It happens all the time...I get left out of all kinds of plans. I have stayed up entire nights worrying my ass off about whether certain people I knew were ok or not cuz I didnt hear from them and ended up wasting my time I could have been spending atleast trying to enjoy myself in another way. Even when I've stood up for myself somehow it always seems to be mixed up in those arguments as me coming out to look like the jerk in the end. "Well our lives don't revolve on making sure your not left out of something, Mark." Well, damn straight, they couldn't have surprised me there.
Well it's just what happens when you try to know people.
Sorry, for your particular incident, Rei. Feel free to rant more often! Why don't you?
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