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Can you trust others?
Are you the kind of person who can blindly trust others or you're more on the suspicious side? Does it take a long time to you to trust another person or you just give all your friendship to them, eventually risking a betrayal later?
For example, if a person you know comes to you and says he spent the weekend at home with a flu, and you called him earlier to go out, but he said he couldn't for this reason, can you believe his story? Or do you think he's a liar? If someome you don't know starts talking about his private life, do you trust anything he says, or do you think he's using his imagination to tell you false things, to appear different?
I usually don't trust everybody. It takes me some time to believe othersì words. It depends. From the tone of the voice or from gestures, I try to understand if the person is telling the truth or not. Some other times it is difficult to tell, because the person is mixing lies and reality so much, to be convinced that lies is reality and that reality is a lie. In this case, when even the person is not sure about it, I find difficult to tell, but I act automatically suspicious as a defense. On the Internet is even more difficult, because most of the times you can only read people's opinions or stories. You have to be patient and pay attention to what people say in order to avoid disappointment later.
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