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I'm one of the people that would have to agree with her. if you think about it, when a friend turns their back on you, they won't only hurt you because of a sense of betrayal, but they will also know everything that will hurt you truly if they are (or were) your best friends. They are the people that you had never expected to side against you, and you thought that you'd be friends for a long time, if not life. it's like breaking up with someone,yet worse in some areas, because unless you and your g/f or b/f broke up on BAD terms, then they will still hold some love for you, and try not to backstab you anymore. With a best friends, when they turn their backs on you, the majority of the time they will hold stuff against you, and will use what they know to bring you down. for the people that are just your enemies, they never get in touch with who you really are, and they won't know exactly what buttons to push. also, you will expect something mean to come from them, because you would never trust them in the first place. and as for you being your own worst enemy, it depends who you are. some people consider themselves to be their best friend, rather than an enemy. it is all about your mindset and your self-esteem. personally, i think that i am my own worst enemy, and my own best friend, yet i don't include myself in the equation, just others.
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The Dark One
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