[merylsilverburg]

Originally posted by Suzuki_Fanboy

Well...to me its both. But it's like...85% personality and 15% looks. 15% because...it matters a little bit. Most of the time though, a good personality can enhance a girl's looks. A good example: At the beginning of last school year, there was this one girl who I didn't really find attractive at all...then through one of my friends (who was also her friend) we started talking, and now we're semi-good friends. Now I think she's pretty hot...so that could show a way personality enhances looks...

Yes, a good personality can enhance the looks very much vice versa. Usually (from what I've seen) drop-dead gorgeous women are usually very arrogant and b*tchy and the same goes for men. Sometimes, it takes an average looking girl or guy to be the best partner since, if the personality is compatible with your own, then that's the best thing, right? And looks wouldn't matter anymore.
So, for me it'd have to be the same as Suzuki and what some others said. It doesn't matter to me if they're extremely beautiful or handsome....if they're annoying as hell then there's no way I'm going to be able to enjoy myself to the fullest with them.
But, like Frozen said, in our society there's nobody who completely just goes for personality anymore. It's all based on looks which really ticks me off. And what's more annoying is, many guys tend to fall for hot women and the women just use them blindly and they're not able to see it. The same can be said for women too. So what sucks is, that no one can just be themselves anymore...women, for example, have to hide their flaws through tons and tons of cosmetics so whatever the guys see is just fake beauty. I understand that looking good is a priority in some cases, but nowadays being natural is a no-no. I even tested it out. I actually never wear any cosmetics and not a single guy gives me the time of day. Then one time, I decided to fix myself up a bit and a couple of guys just looked at my face but that's it. That really pissed me off and goes to show how shallow the world is.