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You just have to let things slip.......I've lived in a society where I hate things people love........infact all my life I have lived in a HUGE FAMILY, where they have thought that I am the weirdest person around. My closest people think I have the worst choice, my parents never and I mean EVER supported me in things I liked. My sisters hate what I listen to, or what I like to watch and how basically I live my life.............
There was a time when where I entered a room, people use to look at me and say "What the f*ck are you doing here".....
What did I do.....I just let it go, and now look...I am happy with everything around.......
The world is not against you Diana, you are! Not saying that you change ureself for the world completely, but YOU ARE going to live here, THERE IS only ONE planet we can live on right now. THESE PEOPLE will be there for the rest of you life. You have to cope with things............ you have to co-operate. I dont change myself, but I do work on things which the society asks me to do. I am not putting myself down like that.
The way you say it, seems like you WANT to go against the people around you, because of the hatred youve had from them. You feel like never agreeing with anything with them.
I KNOW that I am too mature (if not at the forums), at work and with my fellow peeps, and too serious most of the time. YES I AM, and I have been told that my views are different from others. So basically I am just like you, right? AND NO I am not saying all this to prove a point but BECAUSE I am like that.
My friends tell me that I stay too serious all the time, and that I see things differently, but the way I am.......they RESPECT IT and appreciate it. How is that............how can that be possible......if you and I are the same?
You dont have to do anything that you think isn't right Diana. But atleast try to compromise a few things.........that wouldn't hurt your life! ...........Trust me, LIFE IS too short to worry around. But then again, there is whole life for you to enjoy.........if you stay like the way you are........you are going nowhere. You have to change...........
I am not saying try to be someone you are not.........THAT doesn't work for anyone in this world. But start with thinking positive....I seriously dont remember how many times I have told you to be positive about things around. Seems like you dont wanna listen, just like you dont wanna agree with things around the TEENAGE people. Just like that...................
Person 1: Diana, can you wear blue tomorrow?
Diana : No, I dont want to. I am happy with what comes in my mind tomorrow.
Person 1: Fine!
Its not gonna lead you anywhere..........TRUST ME (Although I know you will not) but that doesn't matter.
I am not gonna tell you ever again to be positive. Ive said it before and I'll say it again......listen to people. THEY are trying to help you. You would say "Oh thank you for helping" but would not work on it.
Change is good. and Being positive is better. But then....thats the last time your hearing it from me.
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