[merylsilverburg]

Originally posted by Hylas

No no meryl, your suggestion is not useless. I find it very helpful. I might try to keep on going there and such things, and if I won't get any result, I'll try to ask someone else to go for me now and then. I'm still feeling a bit guilty for some reason, even if it's not my fault at all, but it's not the right moment to be childish I guess...

Well, it may not be the right moment to be childish, but in a way, the family and friends of that guy are being childish. They won't let you in, when you're obviously worried about the guy and so who's being childish? You never did anything wrong and yet when a situation comes up like this, they should at least soften a little and just let you see him, even if it's for a day. You have a right to be feeling mad or angry and maybe guilty (that's common, even when it's not your fault).
Well, I hope that guy feels better and you shouldn't feel too guilty about this. Just try to have someone see him and update you of his status and hopefully once he recovers, he'll realize that you are still the very caring girl and hopefully things will work out between you two.