[merylsilverburg]

Originally posted by Hylas

Since he's not in the condition to decide if I'm welcome or not, I necessarily have to face his familty and friends. It's like I'm alone aganist them, and they're not friendly at all. I would send a card meryl, but how do I know they let him read it?

That's true. Well, if you really want to see how he's feeling, then I think you should keep going to the hospital and insist that you really want to know how he's feeling and continue to send him cards or flowers or "get well items". Hopefully, they'll get the point that you're for real and eventually let you in. But, if they're the types that are very stubborn and set on their minds, then I think you would be wasting your time doing all that. First off, they're being unreasonable keeping you away when you never did anything wrong. If you continue to do that and they won't let you in or anything, then maybe you can just ease off for a while and have someone who is friends with you and him visit him and update you on how he's doing. That way when he recovers, you can be there and greet him. Again, I'm sorry if my suggestion is useless.