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Originally posted by Fortune
Yeah, self-confidence helps a lot, especially with a girl you absolutely don't know. With the ones you know a little better, it's not always necessary, you can show your weak points, but with the ones you don't know, it's better to show a bit of self-confidence, even if you don't think you have it.
Unluckily, patience and time aren't always enough. I'm talking for personal experience (not with girls, but with boys  ). Spending some time on a person you like is ok, but do not waste more than necessary. You'll find that if she doesn't care at all, all your efforts and time will be wasted, and later you could feel some regrets for it.
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I also meant patience in a more general way. Like if one girl doesn't work out, don't kick yourself. Keep trying. I wasn't suggesting he put all his time and energy into one person cuz i know all too well the hurt you can end up feeling when it doesn't work out. What I was trying to say to our pal Cannibal here, is to hang in there and to never give up on himself or doubt that there are girls out there who will think he's a great guy.
And Thanks for bringing up a good point there Fortune. What i said might have not been clear.
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