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Originally posted by Cannibal Clown
So luck with me and the opposite of sex hasn't shown pleasable for me. And the only way i can actually ask a girl out, is if it's like, totally bluntly, saying, you wanna do something later if you have nothing better to do?
So that's it i guess. Damn,
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First of all, try taking out the "if you have nothing better to do" part. Girls like guys who show self confidence and if you show a hint that you don't like yourself it usually doesn't help. I, myself, am very bad at self-confidence, but with practice have been able to not show it when talkin to girls. It will come to you, you just have to like yourself and know inside, while your talking to them, that you have a lot to offer them as an interesting guy. Also, you might want to try taking smaller steps towards asking someone out instead of one huge one all at once. Ask for the number of a girl you know and call her and start talking to her over the phone whenever you can. Then, when you feel comfortable, ask her if she wants to hang out sometime...it doesnt necassarily have to be a date...just hang out first and see where it goes from there.
Second of all, how old are? Would it make you feel better if I told you I didnt have my first real girlfriend until I was 17? It doesnt happen right away for everybody...trust me man...it can only get better from here on...it just takes a LOT of patience and time when you're first startin out for the most part. Hang in there man!
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