All I have to say is my philosophy towards the matter: Live first for quite a long time with teh girl first, I mean, live together, so you can get to know each otehr very, very well, and realise that you are actually custom made for the other. Our hearts, unfortunately, make us blind most of times, and if we take steps while blind, we may fall into misfortunes. But whatever you do man, I wish you the best of luck.