HOLY CRAP! Have you guys heard of this program. It puts all your AIM,MSN,Irc,Yahoo, and ICQ accounts into one nice little toolbar. So you see all your buddys in 1 buddy list, and you can see how much mail you got in all accounts at once. And its FREE. This is just what I needed cause I got 50+ buddys in many accounts. If you wanna check it out here is the link.
https://www.trillian.cc/trillian/index.html