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happy_doughnut · Sep 7th, 2002, 07:32 PM

Well, it's nice to see who you trust

It's good to know you're feeling better now, but really, I can't believe you'd be so hard on yourself for something you really had no control over. I mean, hello ! So what dammit ?!
You can't go around feeling sorry for yourself just because something didn't go the exact way you wanted it to. What good does it do to drown yourself in self-pity, or even worse, get drunk ? None !
The stuff's gonna be there still, so there really is no point.
If something went wrong, or if something didn't happen the way you wanted it to, well, too bad. You can't go aroun dwelling in remorse because that really does no good to the situation.

This wasn't her fault, nor was it yours either. You really can't blame anyone because there is no one to blame. She didn't want to... Ok then. Go find someone else. I mean, it's not like you're not going to find a damn woman in this world. There are plenty !
And so what if you still are ? Why does that make you feel bad ?
If you want to find a decent girl, then you should know that they would be glad to hear that. You do realize that, right ?

*sigh* Really, I know what THATS like... ugh.
I know it sounds strange coming from me since... well, you know how optimistic I am

But I can assure you of one thing :
You can't go around feeling sorry for yourself due to matters that weren't in your control in the first place.
There are very many times in life where things won't go the way you want them to. Sometimes, ther ARE for the better, and sometimes they're not. Whatever the case may be, you have to know that in the end, you'll onle have yourself. If you don't care for yourself, no one else will. This goes for all of the ' other ' things...
You know that they say : ' There are plenty of fish in the sea. '
But you also have to know the differences, and know where to look to find what suits you more. So, sincerely : It didn't happen... get over it and move on, Frozen.

Sep 7th, 2002, 07:32 PM	#22
happy_doughnut just a rolling stone Joined: Apr 2002 Location: of what? Posts: 1,561	Well, it's nice to see who you trust It's good to know you're feeling better now, but really, I can't believe you'd be so hard on yourself for something you really had no control over. I mean, hello ! So what dammit ?! You can't go around feeling sorry for yourself just because something didn't go the exact way you wanted it to. What good does it do to drown yourself in self-pity, or even worse, get drunk ? None ! The stuff's gonna be there still, so there really is no point. If something went wrong, or if something didn't happen the way you wanted it to, well, too bad. You can't go aroun dwelling in remorse because that really does no good to the situation. This wasn't her fault, nor was it yours either. You really can't blame anyone because there is no one to blame. She didn't want to... Ok then. Go find someone else. I mean, it's not like you're not going to find a damn woman in this world. There are plenty ! And so what if you still are ? Why does that make you feel bad ? If you want to find a decent girl, then you should know that they would be glad to hear that. You do realize that, right ? sigh Really, I know what THATS like... ugh. I know it sounds strange coming from me since... well, you know how optimistic I am But I can assure you of one thing : You can't go around feeling sorry for yourself due to matters that weren't in your control in the first place. There are very many times in life where things won't go the way you want them to. Sometimes, ther ARE for the better, and sometimes they're not. Whatever the case may be, you have to know that in the end, you'll onle have yourself. If you don't care for yourself, no one else will. This goes for all of the ' other ' things... You know that they say : ' There are plenty of fish in the sea. ' But you also have to know the differences, and know where to look to find what suits you more. So, sincerely : It didn't happen... get over it and move on, Frozen.