Good topic, a little depressing but good nonetheless.
I believe 'cold' people are wearing a mask. People like that usually have had a bad experience with trusting someone and being let down big-time. Thus they want to avoid it from happening again and just try to avoid the situation all together.
I suppose I tend to not worry about it before hand. If it happens, it does and there's really nothing I can do about it but try and view the good points of it happening. Everything happens for a reason, so why stop it from happening.
Plus, emotions as such, are a part of being human, its a fact of life. Every day something bad will happen, maybe not to you directly but it does affect your life (in some way) whether you know it or not.
I think I've started to ramble again...
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