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Pu the Owl · Jul 31st, 2002, 11:29 AM

Being hated or loved look really alike when they're not superficial feelings. Love makes you feel safe while hate gives you reason to improve yourself. I think both of them can be "positive" feelings if they're pure. I'm not talking of envy, which is really similar to hate but it's not a pure feeling at all. And I'm not talking of the kind of love you can feel just for a brief period or that resembles more to empathy.
Being ignored or forgotten, as the quote you posted in the title, is the worst thing.

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Jul 31st, 2002, 11:29 AM	#2
Pu the Owl Useless Oracle™ Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Everywhere Posts: 5,136	Being hated or loved look really alike when they're not superficial feelings. Love makes you feel safe while hate gives you reason to improve yourself. I think both of them can be "positive" feelings if they're pure. I'm not talking of envy, which is really similar to hate but it's not a pure feeling at all. And I'm not talking of the kind of love you can feel just for a brief period or that resembles more to empathy. Being ignored or forgotten, as the quote you posted in the title, is the worst thing.