Well...
as I said you in private, there is nobody who's pissed off at you, and there isn't even a situation which needs to cool down...
I really don't know why you, or Mena, can think that anybody was offended, angry or anything else because of that joke. Nobody said anything against you, we just asked to change the custom title, and in a friendly way...
It was just a joke, and now you are acting like if you did something horrible. Man, life is so difficult, there is no need to make things even more complicate...
Smile a bit, and try not to be paranoid!!!