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JC Denton · Jun 17th, 2002, 06:16 AM

the worst for me is being two faced, saying that somone is really nice to their face then slaging them of behind there back, or playing two peoples feelings of each other, i don't have a problem with selfishness because at the end of the day we all are or we would not survive, when you put down other to increase yourself then that is wrong, but if something that is rightly yours you cant mbe punished for not giving it away, i dont think it is wrong when somone does this, they arte just not being clever, at the end of the day for me happiness is the main goal, and often you get happier by helping people and being nice than not, but even that idea is selfish, so selfish is a dodgy word,
personnaly i try to think of other people first not only to help them but also to make myself feel good about doing it, otherwise i would not, sometimes it means sacrifices but you get more back.

i think think the best quality is wisdom, this is not like clever, it means they know about life, what makes them and other people happy, know how to use money as well as how to get and knows how to treat people, and usually it is the wis e that get further in life than the clever, you can graduate with straight A's and achieve nothing because you are clever,or leave school at 16 with nothing and become a millionare and Happy and kind because you are wise.

Jun 17th, 2002, 06:16 AM	#9
JC Denton HERO! Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Cambridgeshire,England Posts: 695	the worst for me is being two faced, saying that somone is really nice to their face then slaging them of behind there back, or playing two peoples feelings of each other, i don't have a problem with selfishness because at the end of the day we all are or we would not survive, when you put down other to increase yourself then that is wrong, but if something that is rightly yours you cant mbe punished for not giving it away, i dont think it is wrong when somone does this, they arte just not being clever, at the end of the day for me happiness is the main goal, and often you get happier by helping people and being nice than not, but even that idea is selfish, so selfish is a dodgy word, personnaly i try to think of other people first not only to help them but also to make myself feel good about doing it, otherwise i would not, sometimes it means sacrifices but you get more back. i think think the best quality is wisdom, this is not like clever, it means they know about life, what makes them and other people happy, know how to use money as well as how to get and knows how to treat people, and usually it is the wis e that get further in life than the clever, you can graduate with straight A's and achieve nothing because you are clever,or leave school at 16 with nothing and become a millionare and Happy and kind because you are wise. __________________ HERO WANNABE!!