[happy_doughnut]

You're very right S4H. As a person, I think it is impossible to completely ignore physical features. I know I can't. However, like you, when I really like someone... I don't just like them for what they "look like" , I like them for whom they are. In the long run, for me, it is feelings that count, and not just appearences. I'm not going to lie and say that I don't care for looks. I do... hey, I'm human. But like I've said, to me, they aren't what's really important. And no, you don't sound "lame" at all.
You sound very intellengent and kind That just makes me wonder why you aren't seeing anyone at the moment. You seem like the type of person who would have no trouble with getting a girl.
As for me, I don't know. Guys just overlook me completely. They go for the "pretty" girls. I don't think I ask a lot from a guy. But it still seems like I'll never be able to find someone whom I can really care for. At least, not at this rate.