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Piggle_humsy · Oct 7th, 2005, 04:35 AM

Sorry to hear about your loss Mourdor.

I myself sadly have had alot of losses in my life...

My Mum - when I was 6
Aunty Pam - early teens
Aunty Wendy , then shortly after her husband - Uncle Ted. - mid teens
Aunty Kath, then not long after, her best friend who she lived with - Kath, she was like an adopted aunt to me, I lived with both of them alot in the school holidays after my mum passed away.- mid teens
My grandad (mums side) - mid teens
Kiaya My Friends 10 month old Daughter, Me and my sister were her childminders for the short time she was with us. this was an extremely hard blow. - mid teens
Ellis My Brothers Friend - mid teens
My Nan (on my dad's side) - late teens
Jon - My Cousins Husband. - a few years ago
Steve - A Friend - he took a bad ecstasy.. he was like a brother to my best mate. - a few years ago
Aunty Doris - not too long ago this year

Alot of Funerals.

and it looks like my nan (mums side) may not be with us much longer aswell. she is in hospital after suffering a serious stroke. and she's not doing too well.
Her place became my 2nd home after my mum passed away and she was a total rock for my family. my dad wouldn't have coped without her.
so these are hard times.

I don't think I really have dealt with the grief properly for any of them...
Which is why I am trying so hard to get some counselling at the moment..

Don't be afraid to get help if you need it. Talking to someone does help in some cases. although I realise it is not for everyone.

Just know Mourdor that the pain will ease in time... and keeping the good memories alive will hopefully help you along when times are rough.

Oct 7th, 2005, 04:35 AM	#5
Piggle_humsy The One & Only Joined: Dec 2002 Location: Being Reborn Age: 43 Posts: 2,132	Sorry to hear about your loss Mourdor. I myself sadly have had alot of losses in my life... My Mum - when I was 6 Aunty Pam - early teens Aunty Wendy , then shortly after her husband - Uncle Ted. - mid teens Aunty Kath, then not long after, her best friend who she lived with - Kath, she was like an adopted aunt to me, I lived with both of them alot in the school holidays after my mum passed away.- mid teens My grandad (mums side) - mid teens Kiaya My Friends 10 month old Daughter, Me and my sister were her childminders for the short time she was with us. this was an extremely hard blow. - mid teens Ellis My Brothers Friend - mid teens My Nan (on my dad's side) - late teens Jon - My Cousins Husband. - a few years ago Steve - A Friend - he took a bad ecstasy.. he was like a brother to my best mate. - a few years ago Aunty Doris - not too long ago this year Alot of Funerals. and it looks like my nan (mums side) may not be with us much longer aswell. she is in hospital after suffering a serious stroke. and she's not doing too well. Her place became my 2nd home after my mum passed away and she was a total rock for my family. my dad wouldn't have coped without her. so these are hard times. I don't think I really have dealt with the grief properly for any of them... Which is why I am trying so hard to get some counselling at the moment.. Don't be afraid to get help if you need it. Talking to someone does help in some cases. although I realise it is not for everyone. Just know Mourdor that the pain will ease in time... and keeping the good memories alive will hopefully help you along when times are rough. __________________ Last edited by Piggle_humsy; Oct 7th, 2005 at 04:40 AM..