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Originally Posted by IcyMourdor

Have you had a major death that you mourned over?

Yes, my uncle, in october/2003, my aunt one week later, and my grand-father, December/2004. R.I.P.

Originally Posted by IcyMourdor

Were you young when it happened?

I was 24 when both my uncle and aunt died, and 25 when my grand-father died.

Originally Posted by IcyMourdor

How did you understand and deal with what happened?

Well i think i took my uncle's and aunt's death ok, she was sort of expected cause she had cancer, and the treatments weren't working anymore. My uncle however was a bit strange cause he was fine one minute and dead the next. I had my own strange way of dealing with their death, since i had to support both my mom and my father, as well as my cousins, i didn't really have time to stop and think about how i was feeling, i just put my pain aside and tried to helped them. Maybe it wasn't the best way to deal with it, but that's what happened.

My grand-father's death however, was very painful, not only for the death itself, i couldn't go to the funeral because of a lot of reasons i'll keep for myself, but it also brought a lot of other issues to my life, that i wasn't ready to deal with. I haven't till today been able to cry, and i don't think i will ever. And it wasn't expected either, my mom had just been with him 2 days before and despite having a cold, he was ok.

And i'm sorry for your loss Mourdor...it isn't easy. But keep your head up, it eventually stops hurting.