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Originally Posted by Mourdor
Well, I think I messed up big time. I made a bad comment to a very good friend of mine. She didn't like it at all, and plus with all of the hardships she has been enduring recently, its safe to say she is ticked off at me. She wants to talk about it later today, but I'm sure its gonna be a while before we as good as friends as we were about yesterday maybe, if she even wants to continue being friends.
Thing is, what i said was out of misguided anger, and as soon as I said it, there was no return. I crossed the line that I shouldn't have.
Have there been a time in your life similiar to mine where you have done something and realized you shouldn't have? Where did you end up after you crossed the line? Were you a forgiving person when someone crossed the line with you?
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you're worrying about the situation too much man. that's not a bad thing to do (not a good thing either), if you go on worrying about things like that alot it'll take it's toll. she'll never totally forget what you said, but if she likes you enough she'll forgive you, and that's all you got. As you can probably tell i've crosssed the line a few of times myself.
worst time, was after me and my friend wendy had just finished messing around. i asked her why she always gets really into it (back scratching, load moaning etc)..because it felt like i was barely even doing anything. i didn't think it was a bad question to ask at the time, i was just curious. She took it the wrong way though (of course) like i thought i was the shit or something, and gave me the cold stare (*with eye roll)..i felt like a bit of a jerk after that (but i honestly just wanted to know what i was doing right, for future reference). I just put that whole question in the "don't go there" file and left. some women are very sensitive..