[Hylas]

Honestly Faile, your situation sucks! I'm pissed off after reading your post!

There's nothing bad as a loved one who turns out to be a traitor! I'm always shocked when I hear of people who one day are madly in love with somebody then they have no problems to go with someone else and do this to their previous fiancé. I mean, what kind of person is one who acts like that? I have only a way to call your ex: a real bastard! Hope she will feel ashamed for her behaviour one day. Otherwise it means she really is a person of no values and feelings... The money part of the story is the most awful thing... being so unreliable or carefree is completely outof place. Once you have a responibility of this kind, no matter what, even if you hate the other person, you shouldn't forget to pay your part of the bills and so on! This means she has no respect! I would never trust a person like that! I'm sorry for you, being in such situation thanks to somebody so genuinely cynical must be pretty upsetting! I only suggest to not show how angry and saddened you are, not more than necessary. She will think she can keep on manipulating the situation if she has not a strong person to deal with.

Good luck!