[linkkiller31]

Originally Posted by merylsilverburg

You said it doughnut. My thoughts exactly, no need for me to repeat it all over again.

I just don't understand why being single is such an unbearable state of being. What's so wrong with being single? You're free, you're not tied down, you don't have to worry about appeasing the other person. I just don't get it. And for those who say, "If you're single, people might think you're a loser." So what? I hardly give a rat's ass if people think I'm a loser for being single and not finding the "right person" when that "right person" is gonna end up to be the wrong person. Sorry, I'm not one of those people who go out searching every day and night for the "love of their life" and immediately getting attached to a person who has some slight interest in you. I'm not desperate.
I just don't see why being single is so wrong. I enjoy looking at other couples and seeing them as happy as they can be (especially if they fit each other/look cute with each other) but I don't care about myself. I'm more worried about my future and whether I can make something out of myself and whether I'll be able to support myself and take care of my family who've worked so hard to get me to where I am. That's what I worry about...not "Omg, what if I can't find that person? Omg, what's wrong with me? Omg, what if I'm alone forever?" etc. It's just useless to get stressed over something like this when, as Link said, the right person will come along eventually (and I have said this so many times to so many people, that I could've made an album) you'll just have to be patient. Patience is a virtue. So many people on here are still so young...what's the use of trying to find a significant other at such an early age? Many young people don't even know what the hell they want in life, how can they think they know what to look for in a partner? If you can't take of yourself, then being in a relationship is just going to be a burden. Unless, some people try to find the other person in order for that other person to take care of them, then that's just being weak. But, it's just my opinon.

I really do agree with you i dont have a problem with single people infact most of all my friends are single and they usually ask me why do i have someone right now in my life. And your also right that i have no freakin idea what im gonna do with my life i dont know whats in store or anything. Its just for me a sweet comfort to have someone by my side with me. Even though i know the comfort by me could turn around and kick me in the ass. Then id be single again and id be happy either way. I used to look at life as the glass half empty for everyhting. Now over the past year my views have changed and i figure if something happens like i break up or meet someone else or anything. IT happens for a reason so thats about it.