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Originally Posted by merylsilverburg
I just don't understand why being single is such an unbearable state of being. What's so wrong with being single? You're free, you're not tied down, you don't have to worry about appeasing the other person. I just don't get it.
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There's nothing wrong with being single but I think, as human beings, we're designed to be with each other, not just on a physical level, but an emotional level too.
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need to be with someone manifests itself in different amounts and ways for different people. Some can keep it really hidden and therefore happily be single; others cannot and find they have a succession of partners til they find "the one" for them.
I think as people get older, this need increases and a lot of that is probably biologically/physiologically induced. Some remain single all their life. Basically it's different strokes for different folks.
To those of you who wish for a partner,
it will happen just maybe not as urgently as you would prefer.
I found my partner when I least expected it; it seems to me it happens when you're not trying (or at least that's how it's happened to me thus far in life).
Don't give up - keep the faith cos love can be wonderful when it goes right.
- S