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My parents just went to Europe celebrating their fiftieth wedding anniversary. Admittedly while they have had a lot of good times in their life, there have been times when im sure they were ready to end it. Even if someone were to meet their "true" love, there will be times when their pressed hard as to why their still hanging on so strong to someone. Its a serious commitment thing, which often doesnt happen like it did fifty years ago, that is kinda a result of our throw away society. Somewhere in the seventies it became easier to just end a relationship and either raise the kids yourself or find another hubby or mommy to help raise em. Its tough meeting someone who isnt raising kids and isnt totally involved with them and other distractions. They have a concept of what they are looking for, but havent clearly thought it through enough to know that they really need to try and get that child raised and then seek the attentions of a good man (Goodman, get it!). Im fairly resolved to going another five or more years without being too deeply involved with the right lady because they still have so many distractions, as time and situations evolve, though, that will change and the time will be there for her to concentrate on other things..
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