[goodman]

The fact is, most women wont be the one for you, so instead of going through many, search for the one who is right. Do whatever it takes in the meantime to get along. Actually, as you get older, you will find that while you love the company of a good woman, you can still be happy if you have a settled life and keep busy. Ive had a few girlfriends the past two years, myself, and yet i still very much enjoy my own privacy as much as i do being with them. I didnt really even date much till i was in my late twenties, between shyness and simply trying to find a place in society. What you will learn from listening to others can be helpful, but in the end do whats right for yourself. Same advice i gave to Trunks a while back when he was reeling from the loss of his girlfriend, dont let someone else be the cause of your happiness or unhappiness, find it for yourself, and if someone else wants to join you, then great, at least your happy either way... Many mistake loneliness for being alone, actually loneliness is being seperated internally from the source of life that we all need as human beings, which doesnt come from another person, but God alone...