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Old Jun 19th, 2004, 09:29 AM   #3
IcyMourdor
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This sounds like me like a week ago. My gf and I split up our romantic ties. We are still great friends and all, but she just wasn't ready for a relationship yet. Even though we still are great friends, I was devastated. And then there is one thing I learned through all my relationships whoever they were. Just because it didn't work out with them doesn't mean there isn't someone out there for you.

I am a firm believer that two souls are meant to be with one another, and will travel until they can be together. You just have to be ready...and patient. Souls are eternal, and thus their quest can be as well. Just keep looking, but don't let it worry you. This will only lead into depression the more you think about it. I know, I just snapped out mine.

My group of friends are another example. We have like 15 people in our group. Half of them has had gfs/bfs because they were themselves. I myself of found gfs, offline and online, cause I was, as my last gf Bobby would say it "cute and caring" self. And yet, I never hid what I was, a gamer who was a jock. Some of my friends haven't had gfs/bfs cause they hide who they are. They act like themselves when at my house. But when they are around their gf, they act like three different people.

I don't care who you are. You could be an amazing person or you could be a Brian Hext (my friends here will understand the meaning). Everyone will find someone, someday. Either in this life, or the next, or maybe the one after that. However, that goes into my spiritual beliefs, whole nother topic.

Don't get yourself down red. She is out there and she is looking for you as well. Just give it time and have fun in the mean time. Don't take being single for granted.
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