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I'm not an expert in this, but isn't it possible to meet someone on a forum of which you share mutual interests or through other websites. Kinda in a way where it doesn't all resolve around dating or trying to match people but where you get to know people in a more relaxed way.
Maybe when you have a hobby like growing fruit(couldn't think of anything else sorry) and you mingle in an online community about that hobby maybe just maybe you'll find some one like-minded and it could turn out right, changes are very slim I know but bigger than a dating-add IMO.
A woman I know met some guy in Norway through a shared interest in history and are currently living together with a baby in Holland, so you'll never know it's possible that's for sure.