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Beretta55
Feb 6th, 2003, 12:50 AM
Do you have courage? like to walk up to a cute girl and talk to her or to say shut up to somebody?
i know i sure as hell i dont im just a big ol scardy cat:laugh:
there are time's i just want to tell somebody shut the hell up then hit them. but i dont because i really dont like fighting at all or verbal fighting for that matter:P
then me with girl's......*cough's* i rather not talk about that:D

DSgamer
Feb 6th, 2003, 12:56 AM
dude, u should c me with women, i melt

MakgSnake
Feb 6th, 2003, 01:34 AM
I do have the courage but I just dont...... I dont tell me to shup up, and well girls........ unless its a unique case, I dont really try to talk. Not saying that I am not intrested in girls or anything. Right now........ I am alright without them.

DSgamer
Feb 6th, 2003, 02:09 AM
i know these 2 cute girls from school, i knew they went 2 my school, but we actually met on AIM. we usually chat for hours, but when i go 2 school i cant talk 2 them for some reason :roll: :roll: yesterday, i had PE with them, we played basketball, i was completely sucking, i couldn't keep concentrated. can any1 help me with this lol

Berserker
Feb 6th, 2003, 07:22 AM
You guys need to get your self-esteem up, see yourself as the macdaddy of all the macdaddies:cool:
It's been said a million times before a girl won't think your fly if you don't even think so yourself.
Be happy with yourself nobody is perfect!!!!!
And if you aren't confident about yourself, maybe consider doing a martial art or somethinmg like that( I recommend kickboxing,muay thai,boxing). That will surely boost your coinfidence( or courage if you like ).

If anything else fails just use the JEDI-mindtrick on them;)

Infernal Mass
Feb 6th, 2003, 07:34 AM
when the occasion calls for a direct approach, it's better to just go for it. Although, there are occasions when all the signs aren't present..then there are other ways to get your point across which aren't as confrontational..this is where persona comes into play. It's best to be yourself.

mark0™
Feb 6th, 2003, 09:44 AM
Originally posted by gamer

i know these 2 cute girls from school, i knew they went 2 my school, but we actually met on AIM. we usually chat for hours, but when i go 2 school i cant talk 2 them for some reason


Same thing happened to me, but I kinda talk to those girls now.. sometimes. lol, I don't talk to her at school but I met her in the Pub and bought her a few drinks :) (ah, alcohol cures all)

disregard that last part kiddies lol

ssjtrunks13
Feb 6th, 2003, 10:37 AM
Originally posted by gamer

i know these 2 cute girls from school, i knew they went 2 my school, but we actually met on AIM. we usually chat for hours, but when i go 2 school i cant talk 2 them for some reason :roll: :roll: yesterday, i had PE with them, we played basketball, i was completely sucking, i couldn't keep concentrated. can any1 help me with this lol

I can't help you. I can never find the courage to ask a girl out. I know my girlfirend may not be what others would go for, but if we ever went to the same school I would have had problems trying to talk to her. This happens no matter what they look like for some reason.

dan da man
Feb 6th, 2003, 11:04 AM
Do i have courage? Everybody has it in them, but dont use it, I have it i me but i dont use it all the time, I will tell someone to shut if they get on my nerves because i stick up for myself. But girls, I get all shy and sometimes not,dpends who the girl is, im fine without a g/f now, im to busy.:D

jjmoohead
Feb 6th, 2003, 11:53 AM
its not about having courage, its just that i feel some girls are out of my league so I choose not to talk to them.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 6th, 2003, 12:07 PM
I have never felt a girl was out of my league. SOmetimes, I just feel I might say something stupid or do something that would make them be repelled from me. The funny thing is, on field trips starting with the 5th grade I had chased the girls around because I had felt alone and wanted to hang around with someone. Unfotunately I couldn't tell them why I was doing that.

fantasytiger
Feb 6th, 2003, 03:06 PM
hey you guys make it sound like its easy for us girls..:mean:

its just as tough for us to I mean for one if we know a guy digs us we panic and instead of trying not to make our selfs look like idiots or say the wrong thing we end up doing just the opposite.

I have a lot of guy friends (THEY ARE JUST FRIENDS) they like me because I am an easy going person I am not your average girl I bet even Beretta55 could talk to me in person with no problem.

I play sports, video games, skate board, surf, i am into pretty much the same things and I like to wrestle and i take karate. Courage to me is being yourself no matter what other people think or despite the fact if they are going to like you or not. I have two brothers i am the only girl i have to be able to blech as loud as them or go head to head with them and be just as good as them on tekken

I mean don't get me wrong I can still act like i am a princess with proper manners and so forth. i am just relaxed being myself.

maybe not couragous but I am me.

Suzuki_Fanboy
Feb 6th, 2003, 03:15 PM
I tell people to shut up all the time (if they piss me off), and I don't have that much of a problem talking to most girls...unless they're like completely random girls I've never met.

David
Feb 6th, 2003, 03:36 PM
I feel sorry for you guys...:heh: I'm not afraid to say shut up too somebody, or talk to a cute girl. But I wouldn't sat shut up too a girl thou.

Beretta55
Feb 6th, 2003, 04:38 PM
Originally posted by David

I feel sorry for you guys...:heh: I'm not afraid to say shut up too somebody, or talk to a cute girl. But I wouldn't sat shut up too a girl thou.
*ahem* shut up! jk jk:laugh: it's not that im not scared to tell people to shut up. im just a man of peace i wish the world was without hate and all that stuff but alas it wont ever happen.:disturb:

mark0™
Feb 6th, 2003, 04:44 PM
I'm a Pacifist too, but If i get pissed off, I'll breat the guy up... 'nuff said.

David
Feb 6th, 2003, 04:49 PM
Originally posted by Beretta55

*ahem* shut up! jk jk:laugh: it's not that im not scared to tell people to shut up. im just a man of peace i wish the world was without hate and all that stuff but alas it wont ever happen.:disturb:

See, you did it, not so hard.;) But try saying it to someone not with messaging and online chat. Try that!:laugh:

Beretta55
Feb 6th, 2003, 04:51 PM
Originally posted by David

See, you did it, not so hard.;) But try saying it to someone not with messaging and online chat. Try that!:laugh:
quiet! dont make me bumple your rumple!:laugh:

ssjtrunks13
Feb 6th, 2003, 04:55 PM
I never said anything about the other part, but I have no prblem with saying shut up. I'm sure it is hard for you girls and I don't think I never thought about it either. You've got two brothers? Cool, my little sister isn't the only sister but our other sister has been living over on the west coast in Washington, but my little brother is less than nice to her soemtimes. Also, she can already out belch her brothers.;)

David
Feb 6th, 2003, 04:58 PM
Originally posted by Beretta55

quiet! dont make me bumple your rumple!:laugh:

Oh yeah, bring it!:laugh: ;)

Cannibal Clown
Feb 6th, 2003, 05:07 PM
I'm one of the most pethetic poeple you will ever know, and the woird courage is one of the words that discribes me the least, as a matter of fact, it opposes me. The whole idea of doing something that requires "balls" isn't an idea that comes to me often. I leave that sort of thing for my friends, i just watch.

Oh well, sucks to be me i suppose.

David
Feb 6th, 2003, 06:32 PM
Originally posted by Cannibal Clown

I'm one of the most pethetic poeple you will ever know, and the woird courage is one of the words that discribes me the least, as a matter of fact, it opposes me. The whole idea of doing something that requires "balls" isn't an idea that comes to me often. I leave that sort of thing for my friends, i just watch.

Oh well, sucks to be me i suppose.

Don't worry about it, it's good to be a guy who doesn't have the heart to hurt someone, or say shut up. I too, sometimes watch saying shut up too, you never know when it might be a gang member... ;)

DSgamer
Feb 6th, 2003, 08:19 PM
guess what!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
there was a dance at school, me and my online friend dance the whole time. i felt kinda wierd at first, but i got used to it :roll: :roll:

n e ways, im gonna start hanging out with her from now on

Piggle_humsy
Feb 7th, 2003, 12:12 PM
I can tell people to get lost and shut up but i could never ever approach a guy i liked! ever! I am afraid of humiliation! If i was to chat a guy up and he said sorry no i would just die!
I fi liked a guy i would wait for him to approach me which normally never happens as i think i scare people! :laugh:

piggle :roll:
x x x x

Cannibal Clown
Feb 9th, 2003, 04:07 PM
Originally posted by Piggle_humsy

I can tell people to get lost and shut up but i could never ever approach a guy i liked! ever! I am afraid of humiliation! If i was to chat a guy up and he said sorry no i would just die!
I fi liked a guy i would wait for him to approach me which normally never happens as i think i scare people! :laugh:

piggle :roll:
x x x x

My feelings exactly.

sk8er_kyle
Feb 9th, 2003, 07:00 PM
I have no problems hitting guys or telling them to shut up. Around girls i get a little nervous because i dont want to say something stupid. Im not that nervous any more because I have been getting more popular at my school. Popularity is the best.:ghost:

Chara
Feb 9th, 2003, 07:03 PM
Some people say I would be a "playa" if I didnt have such a huge problem with talking to girls. Some of the hottest girls like me but I dont really talk that well with girls because my first impressions are always awful(I say something stupid, do something stupid, eat something stupid, drink something stupid, etc.).

But what Im really puzzled about is why girls think I am gay when i first meet them. I have no idea as to what would amke them think that. Actually its quite disturbing....

REChick14
Feb 9th, 2003, 07:17 PM
Haha I have no courage at all. Omg I have a lot of trouble talkin to guys. But ya know I gotta do what I gotta do. There is this blazin guy at my school. Hes soo fine, hes funny, and well built.
Hehe.....Anyways my quincenera is in june so I built up my strength and asked him to be my escort and he said yes. So its all good. But I still have trouble talkin to guys. I worry that im gonna say the wrong thing and embarass myself. As for telling people to shut up, I cant do it. Im too soft and plus add the fact im shy.:D

merylsilverburg
Feb 9th, 2003, 07:19 PM
Ah...no courage here whatsoever. :laugh: Yeah....I'm even afraid of posting my opinions sometimes being afraid of getting flamed or something, so I'm just a big wuss. :laugh:

Beretta55
Feb 9th, 2003, 07:27 PM
Originally posted by merylsilverburg

Ah...no courage here whatsoever. :laugh: Yeah....I'm even afraid of posting my opinions sometimes being afraid of getting flamed or something, so I'm just a big wuss. :laugh:
no your not im exactly the same way. that's why alot of the time's i mostly keep my mouth shut most of the time.

Gadzoox
Feb 9th, 2003, 07:57 PM
I'm not afraid to ask someone out, if I like them and the circumstances are right (like he isn't taken already) I'll ask him out.

I mean, why lose a perfectly fine opportunity? Aren't you curious what the person would have said if you had asked and hadn't hesitated??? It would drive me mad.

I HATE it when guys aren't ambitious!!! I mean just DO it!!! It won't kill you!!! Have confidence but don't get all huffy if it isn't the answer you want, if it is, then congrats!! It's not like a life or death decision!!! C'mon you guys!!! Jeepers! What if the person you have your eye on is too shy, but really does like you, and you've never asked him/her out? WHAT IF?!!?!

merylsilverburg
Feb 9th, 2003, 08:33 PM
Originally posted by Gadzoox
I mean, why lose a perfectly fine opportunity? Aren't you curious what the person would have said if you had asked and hadn't hesitated??? It would drive me mad.

Some people are afraid of rejection. Some people get embarrassed too easily. I understand that it's all a part of life and people have to just move on, but there are just some who can't do it. I mean, sure they will be curious on what the other person would say, but to them, they feel it's better not knowing than going through it and feel stupid afterwards when they are denied.


I HATE it when guys aren't ambitious!!! I mean just DO it!!! It won't kill you!!! Have confidence but don't get all huffy if it isn't the answer you want, if it is, then congrats!! It's not like a life or death decision!!! C'mon you guys!!! Jeepers! What if the person you have your eye on is too shy, but really does like you, and you've never asked him/her out? WHAT IF?!!?!

Guys get "huffy" because to be honest (and please don't take offense guys) men are very afraid of rejection (at least the ones that I've been studying). And not only that, but it tends to be that teenage guys who are usually the ones who lack the confidence they need to ask the person they like out. They're afraid of rejection a lot. But besides that, a lot of guys get all nervous whenever they encounter a situation such as this because they're afraid that the girl might be "out of their league" or might say "no" and don't want to go through with it.

Cannibal Clown
Feb 9th, 2003, 09:17 PM
Originally posted by goodman

A good conversational ability goes a long way in getting a person to know whether they would like you or not. So develop that, and then you can go from there. A woman likes a nice, attractive, man, but she loves a nice, attractive, conversant, man, who can talk his way in, and out of just about any situation...


SH1T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Well i guess i know what sort of love life i'm going to have.....none at alll!

merylsilverburg
Feb 9th, 2003, 09:21 PM
Originally posted by Cannibal Clown

SH1T!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Ah...there was no need for that.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 9th, 2003, 10:05 PM
Originally posted by Chara

But what Im really puzzled about is why girls think I am gay when i first meet them. I have no idea as to what would amke them think that. Actually its quite disturbing....

That must be really annoying. I'd hate it if every time I first met someone they would think I'm gay. To be honest my girlfriend even asked me that once.

Originally posted by merylsilverburg

Ah...no courage here whatsoever. :laugh: Yeah....I'm even afraid of posting my opinions sometimes being afraid of getting flamed or something, so I'm just a big wuss. :laugh:

You can't be serious. Is that why you haven't posted much? because I sure would hate it if you truly felt that way. I think it would be nice talking to you. I was afraid to mention I was interested in YGO: DDM, but I did it anyway.

Originally posted by merylsilverburg

Guys get "huffy" because to be honest (and please don't take offense guys) men are very afraid of rejection (at least the ones that I've been studying).

Ain't that the truth! I don't see anything wrong with thinking that because I am really afraid of rejection. I can't take it, I feel I've been rejected all my life by my peers and I don't want to feel like that, but I feel I've made some very good friends over this internet thing.:cool:

David
Feb 9th, 2003, 10:48 PM
Originally posted by Chara

Some people say I would be a "playa" if I didnt have such a huge problem with talking to girls. Some of the hottest girls like me but I dont really talk that well with girls because my first impressions are always awful(I say something stupid, do something stupid, eat something stupid, drink something stupid, etc.).

But what Im really puzzled about is why girls think I am gay when i first meet them. I have no idea as to what would amke them think that. Actually its quite disturbing....

Girls thought you were gay, by just looking at you! That's rough... I feel sorry for you. Man, did they asked you if you were gay?

Chara
Feb 10th, 2003, 08:11 PM
Nah, girls dont look at me and view me as gay (is it even possible to do that?). Once I start talking to them, they think I am gay. But I think its something that the girls around here got accustomed to in guys that I dont have. Maybe the wanna be gangsta image that most people put out here.

I dont try to put out no "gangsta" image. I try to be me. And my personality is rather odd...

ssjtrunks13
Feb 10th, 2003, 09:41 PM
I guess I can kinda see why, but not really. I think it's cool you try to be different. More people should try to be, including me.

Gadzoox
Feb 10th, 2003, 09:52 PM
I know what you mean Meryl (about the guy being afraid of rejection), but it just bothers the heck out of me!! I mean... why go on wondering when you could just find out in a matter of minutes!

Like I said before, it wont kill you; unless she's an axe murderer!! :laugh:

Try not to make such a big deal about asking people out; if they say no, maybe they weren't good enough for you in the first place... maybe you are going to find someone better the next day... maybe /they/ are afraid to be in a relationship and just arent ready!!
There are so many possibilities! So many chances!! SO much HOPE for all you young and afraid people out there!!!
:phew: heehee. :>

ssjtrunks13
Feb 10th, 2003, 10:18 PM
then why wouldn't they tell you why instead of just saying no. I guess I more afraid of not finding out why and going on forever wondering what the reason is.

Gadzoox
Feb 10th, 2003, 10:30 PM
Maybe because they don't want to hurt your feelings moreso... I don't know... ask her!

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 09:55 AM
I was just asking if someone told someone no, but they have a reason why wouldn't they just tell the person what the reason is. I wanted to know why you wouldn't tell the person why. I was also aking other ladies.

dan da man
Feb 11th, 2003, 10:37 AM
Originally posted by Gadzoox

I'm not afraid to ask someone out, if I like them and the circumstances are right (like he isn't taken already) I'll ask him out.

I mean, why lose a perfectly fine opportunity? Aren't you curious what the person would have said if you had asked and hadn't hesitated??? It would drive me mad.

I HATE it when guys aren't ambitious!!! I mean just DO it!!! It won't kill you!!! Have confidence but don't get all huffy if it isn't the answer you want, if it is, then congrats!! It's not like a life or death decision!!! C'mon you guys!!! Jeepers! What if the person you have your eye on is too shy, but really does like you, and you've never asked him/her out? WHAT IF?!!?!

That is true, but you can only look at it from a girls point of view not a guys, im not shy, just depends who the chick is.

Gadzoox
Feb 11th, 2003, 03:21 PM
Good point Dan.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 03:30 PM
What she said is somewhat true to me. I just can't do it, I even have a hard time of just trying to talk with them.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 03:30 PM
What she said is somewhat true to me. I just can't do it, I even have a hard time of just trying to talk with them.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 03:30 PM
What she said is somewhat true to me. I just can't do it, I even have a hard time of just trying to talk with them.

David
Feb 11th, 2003, 03:31 PM
Originally posted by Chara

Nah, girls dont look at me and view me as gay (is it even possible to do that?). Once I start talking to them, they think I am gay. But I think its something that the girls around here got accustomed to in guys that I dont have. Maybe the wanna be gangsta image that most people put out here.

I dont try to put out no "gangsta" image. I try to be me. And my personality is rather odd...

That is kinda harsh. But here's a few tips. Trying something new, not always change your personality. But for my example... I use to be a preppy, and a weirdo. And now im a baggy spikey hair, blondie cool guy, not quite popular, but enough to have... good friends, and a girlfriend if a wanted to. I'm still the same as I was before, but with a new appearance, and people liked me better.

I don't actually qualify my tip, as a good tip, but enough to make you be more excesorize. That will probably make some girls like yeah, oh yeah.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 04:07 PM
I used the clothes which my parents got for me, which through the 6th grade was really tight pants that were too short and shirts that had designs that I didn't like and were too tight. Now I wear baggy pants and shirts because Anything else feels too tight. I used to be able to wear an XL and have it be a little too big now I need a XXL shirt so that the shirt doesn't make my back itch. I guess I talked a little too much about things you probably didn't want to hear. So if that happens I'm sorry.

David
Feb 11th, 2003, 04:10 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

I used the clothes which my parents got for me, which through the 6th grade was really tight pants that were too short and shirts that had designs that I didn't like and were too tight. Now I wear baggy pants and shirts because Anything else feels too tight. I used to be able to wear an XL and have it be a little too big now I need a XXL shirt so that the shirt doesn't make my back itch. I guess I talked a little too much about things you probably didn't want to hear. So if that happens I'm sorry.

No, not really, it show's that your a baggy style guy, like me. I hate tight cloths myself, if you met me, you will never see me with tight cloths or not with my hair spiked.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 04:14 PM
Well, I guess I thought about what I was saying a little too much, but I don't spike my hair. At first when I heard "My name is" form Eminem I thought to bleach my hair like his then I realized that I like my hair the way it is. My hair used to be so red you could tell, but now it looks all dark and I don't think anyone can tell.

David
Feb 11th, 2003, 04:18 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

Well, I guess I thought about what I was saying a little too much, but I don't spike my hair. At first when I heard "My name is" form Eminem I thought to bleach my hair like his then I realized that I like my hair the way it is. My hair used to be so red you could tell, but now it looks all dark and I don't think anyone can tell.

I bleech my hair only in the summer, because of the winter, I don't want to.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 11th, 2003, 05:21 PM
How did I post the same thing three times? I don't remembering hitting the post button three time, sorry.

David
Feb 11th, 2003, 05:29 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

How did I post the same thing three times? I don't remembering hitting the post button three time, sorry.

What are you talking about Trunks? You never copied anything 3 times?

ssjtrunks13
Feb 12th, 2003, 11:13 AM
Originally posted by MYSELF

What she said is somewhat true to me. I just can't do it, I even have a hard time of just trying to talk with them.

David, Here's what appeared three times, at least it shows that when I come here.

dan da man
Feb 12th, 2003, 11:17 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

How did I post the same thing three times? I don't remembering hitting the post button three time, sorry.

Sometimes posting messages can be dodgy, dont worry.

David
Feb 12th, 2003, 03:56 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

David, Here's what appeared three times, at least it shows that when I come here.

Strange? It wasn't there before? I see it now.

mark0™
Feb 12th, 2003, 04:03 PM
You can delete your own posts if it happens by going to edit post then clicking on delete post.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 13th, 2003, 11:44 AM
I know I can, but I'm just too lazy to do it.

Anyway, today was someone's birthday and I actually went up to her and gave her a birthday, hug. Next time I plan on just doing it instead of angsting over it.

Berserker
Feb 14th, 2003, 03:27 AM
That's the way trunks...may the force be with you...

dan da man
Feb 14th, 2003, 07:34 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

Anyway, today was someone's birthday and I actually went up to her and gave her a birthday, hug. Next time I plan on just doing it instead of angsting over it.

There some courage already, may the force be with you.:laugh:

David
Feb 14th, 2003, 09:10 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

I know I can, but I'm just too lazy to do it.

Anyway, today was someone's birthday and I actually went up to her and gave her a birthday, hug. Next time I plan on just doing it instead of angsting over it.

Way to go Trunks! I hug girls all the time, you know, friendly hugs. Almost the same as Trunks said.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 14th, 2003, 12:09 PM
Originally posted by David

Way to go Trunks! I hug girls all the time, you know, friendly hugs. Almost the same as Trunks said.
Originally posted by beserker

That's the way trunks...may the force be with you...
Originally posted by dan da man

There some courage already, may the force be with you.:laugh:

Wow I feel much better now that I know there are people who care. Thanks, too bad she didn't even talk to me today or give me a hug. I'm so upset.:(

dan da man
Feb 14th, 2003, 03:07 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

Wow I feel much better now that I know there are people who care. Thanks, too bad she didn't even talk to me today or give me a hug. I'm so upset.:(


Hey dont worry, she could of bee shocked or someting.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 14th, 2003, 03:19 PM
Originally posted by dan da man

Hey dont worry, she could of bee shocked or someting.

I guess you may be right. BTW, I'm still waiting for a real hug, though.

David
Feb 15th, 2003, 06:55 PM
Originally posted by dan da man

Hey dont worry, she could of bee shocked or someting.

Or maybe she wasn't interested, in giving you hug today?

ssjtrunks13
Feb 16th, 2003, 10:44 AM
Originally posted by David

Or maybe she wasn't interested, in giving you hug today?

I know it's been two days since V-Day, but that was friday. Well she said thank you when I gave her a hug, but I couldn't tell if she was so happy about it. Anyway, it's over and I can't go on thinking about it all the time.

dan da man
Feb 16th, 2003, 11:41 AM
Trunks do you like the girl you hugged? I mean do you think she's hot?

ssjtrunks13
Feb 16th, 2003, 04:39 PM
Originally posted by dan da man

Trunks do you like the girl you hugged? I mean do you think she's hot?

I do, why do you ask?

dan da man
Feb 16th, 2003, 04:56 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

I do, why do you ask?


Because it got obvious when you sounded all dissapointed about her not responding back.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 16th, 2003, 05:24 PM
Originally posted by dan da man

Because it got obvious when you sounded all dissapointed about her not responding back.

It's wasn't because of what I think of her. The actual reason is people don't walk up and talk to me and I just was hoping maybe she would have talked to me.

David
Feb 17th, 2003, 07:24 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

It's wasn't because of what I think of her. The actual reason is people don't walk up and talk to me and I just was hoping maybe she would have talked to me.

Man, thats sad, not saying it in a sarcastic way. She probably thought it was weird. Who knows, maybe she wasn't actually up for the hug? It ain't bad, but something you would do to make them show you care.

dan da man
Feb 17th, 2003, 07:30 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

It's wasn't because of what I think of her. The actual reason is people don't walk up and talk to me and I just was hoping maybe she would have talked to me.

Trunks, shes a girl, anything could of been up with her, it could off been that time of the month or anything, to show her your intrested, ask for her number.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 17th, 2003, 12:42 PM
I already have a girlfriend, I just wanted to actually have a conversation with someone at school because I never really had one at school. Let's just leave it at that.

dan da man
Feb 17th, 2003, 03:36 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

I already have a girlfriend, I just wanted to actually have a conversation with someone at school because I never really had one at school. Let's just leave it at that.


Oh..right, I forgot about your girlfriend. But you find her hot, so why say it? ofcourse were going to talk about, its a forum:P yea if you want to leave at that, ok.;)

ssjtrunks13
Feb 17th, 2003, 03:50 PM
Originally posted by dan da man

But you find her hot, so why say it?

WHy say what?

dan da man
Feb 17th, 2003, 03:54 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

WHy say what?

You said she's hot, so me and David were giving you courage, so we were probally gone give you more, but earlier you said, leave it at this. Dosent matter, I tottally forgot you had a g/f.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 17th, 2003, 08:46 PM
ALright, I see the picture better now. I said let's leave it at that because I didn't want you guys to ask me a certain question, but now I forgot what it was. I would still like to be able to talk to her without getting all nervous. I'm glad that I have friends like you and David, thanks guys.

dan da man
Feb 18th, 2003, 07:59 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

ALright, I see the picture better now. I said let's leave it at that because I didn't want you guys to ask me a certain question, but now I forgot what it was. I would still like to be able to talk to her without getting all nervous. I'm glad that I have friends like you and David, thanks guys.

No probs trunks.....so you just want to be friends with her, but you get all vervous when you speek to her...that would only happen to me if I was going to ask her out or something.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 18th, 2003, 11:02 AM
Originally posted by dan da man

No probs trunks.....so you just want to be friends with her, but you get all vervous when you speek to her...that would only happen to me if I was going to ask her out or something.

Well, that happens to me whenever I'm around a girl. Something just happens, I don't know what or why.

dan da man
Feb 18th, 2003, 04:20 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

Well, that happens to me whenever I'm around a girl. Something just happens, I don't know what or why.


It just happens, it's human nature.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 18th, 2003, 05:32 PM
I know it is, I just wasn't thinking too hard. Well, It's even hard for me to call my g/f on the phone.

dan da man
Feb 19th, 2003, 10:49 AM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

Well, It's even hard for me to call my g/f on the phone.

Why?

RobHardo
Feb 19th, 2003, 10:52 AM
of course i have courage, towards anyone except my dad. I know sometimes its stupid to have that couyrage but i do, like when some one is bigger than me and i tell to shut the F*** up or call em gay when they talk big and stuff like that, and as for girls, I know a lot of cool girls that i liek but i am under such a thin desguise of being their best friends that im surprisd that havent seen threw me

ssjtrunks13
Feb 19th, 2003, 11:18 AM
I get all nervous and can't think of anything to say. Also, it's easier for me to write to her for some reason.

David
Feb 19th, 2003, 03:42 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

ALright, I see the picture better now. I said let's leave it at that because I didn't want you guys to ask me a certain question, but now I forgot what it was. I would still like to be able to talk to her without getting all nervous. I'm glad that I have friends like you and David, thanks guys.

Hey, no prob, what are friends for. We stick with each other to the end. Even online friendship.

David
Feb 19th, 2003, 03:49 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

I get all nervous and can't think of anything to say. Also, it's easier for me to write to her for some reason.

It's easier to right notes to her, because you ain't speaking to her in public, so it won't make you nervous that much, when she might reacts to it, even the people around you won't make you nervous by not saying it, it's sort of like stage fright, but tongue tied the must. It makes you easier to feel free with out nowing how you feel, when righting to her, and i know you have a G/F. Thats good, but becareful, girls will get jealous much as a guy does, when their girl is spending alot of time trying to get another guy notice her.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 19th, 2003, 04:07 PM
David, that's what I wanted to sya, but couldn't find the words to do it. Thanks. Also, Thanks for the tip.

David
Feb 19th, 2003, 04:12 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

David, that's what I wanted to sya, but couldn't find the words to do it. Thanks. Also, Thanks for the tip.

Not a problem Trunks.

Mclaren F1
Feb 22nd, 2003, 10:57 PM
Well, about girls, thats easy...

About anyone else is even easier

Why, ill snap in a milisecond because i dont own a short fuze, i have no fuze, anyone says sumthing even remotely stupid, thats that i snap and they mostly end up in the hospital...

About girls its always been easy, I see it this way, if you dont talk to her, you will never know what could have happened if you did, maybe she liked you back and now you will never know, so always go for it and you will never have to turn back and ask yourself What if?

sk8er_kyle
Feb 22nd, 2003, 11:36 PM
Originally posted by Mclaren F1

About girls its always been easy, I see it this way, if you dont talk to her, you will never know what could have happened if you did, maybe she liked you back and now you will never know, so always go for it and you will never have to turn back and ask yourself What if?
Thats what I try to do. But most of the times im to much of a chicken. Soon I will put an end to my chicken ways.

Killuminati
Feb 23rd, 2003, 01:50 AM
I dont have any trouble talkin to any girl about anythin, i dont care what people think of me im comfortable with who i am thats why. if a girl doesnt like hey thats her loss i'll just go find someone better. and i aint afraid to tell someone to shut up, if they piss me off at all il ljust start chirpin and well, i love to fight, so i aint afraid to knock someone out either.

dan da man
Feb 23rd, 2003, 09:37 AM
Originally posted by Mclaren F1

About girls its always been easy, I see it this way, if you dont talk to her, you will never know what could have happened if you did, maybe she liked you back and now you will never know, so always go for it and you will never have to turn back and ask yourself What if?

Thats a good point, I try do that too, becuase you never know.

ssjtrunks13
Feb 23rd, 2003, 03:27 PM
I'd rather walkound wondering what might have happened than to actually be rejected because up until a few years ago I was picked on a lot in school. Actually, some of the people who had picked on me later became my friends.

DSgamer
Feb 23rd, 2003, 03:36 PM
Originally posted by ssjtrunks13

Actually, some of the people who had picked on me later became my friends.


I too made friends with ppl who picked on me. but there's allways the thought in the back of your mind "are they really my friends?"

ssjtrunks13
Feb 23rd, 2003, 03:56 PM
Originally posted by gamer

"are they really my friends?"

I know one of them really is but the other two I'm not so sure about, though they told me soemthing they had noticed about me(I can't say it here)

dan da man
Feb 23rd, 2003, 04:22 PM
Originally posted by gamer
"are they really my friends?"

"keep your friends close!";)

David
Feb 23rd, 2003, 06:14 PM
Some peeps express them selves with torture. Maybe it's how they were raised in... J/K. OK, this is the thing, if you don't call them friends guys, it's because your trust is low with them, but if you trust them alot, you shouldn't look to much about it in the past, but the present. People change in varity ways. And PM me about it Trunks, if you want, I would like to hear your story.

Also leave a post if you don't understand, ill be glad to be more specific.