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DSgamer · Jan 7th, 2003, 11:48 PM

having a relationship is way better than beign alone, well to me at least, i'm in 8th grade and been going out with girl since 6th grade. I really enjoy having a g/f around, specially if they live like 3 houses down from urs

DragonSphere · Jan 8th, 2003, 02:05 AM

I guess I also join with the other single members in this thread; I have yet to have a g/f and am 15. It doesn't bother me too much, like it does to my friends, but it sometimes makes me envy their so-called "luck" on finding wonderfully attractive mates. I just don't understand how they do it...but yes, I'm beginning to accept that my time will come eventually.

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 03:16 AM

Well lol. As of today, I am no longer single! I have a wonderful girfriend now how respects my intrests unlike the last two slimeballs... Anyways, I couldnt be happier!

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 04:25 AM

aww! I'm so happy for you Valkrie!

*hugs* Its a shame I couldnt catch you ^_~ *giggles* just kidding.

anyway, I'm sorta drowning in my own depression over my relationship or whatever you can call it now... but I try not to bring my depression onto the forums, unless I need advice. So I wont get into it unless anyone really wants to know.. which I doubt anyone would. lol! Anyway yeah.. ^_^;

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 04:27 AM

Well my rule of thumb is this. If a relationship brings depression, it's obviously not a good thing. Why would a good thing make you depressed? But dont listen to me, I'm not the best with romantic situations lol. Give me a peice of beef jerky and sharp steel to a dress and flower anyday lol

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 04:31 AM

well.. that's just it.. i cant call it a "relationship" anymore.. since we're "taking a break" ..yet still talking to eachother.. i just have trouble supressing my feelings.. cause I want to show them more than anything.. but cant for fear of ..of... god, I dont even know really what I'm afraid of.. lol its all screwed. ^_^;

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 04:35 AM

what sort of break? A see other people break?

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 04:45 AM

I suppose... but he swears on all that he is that even durring the time that we'll be broken up, that he'll never go for anyone else.. not even try... i.. on the other hand.. know someone I'd like to see... but would rather not even take the risk... I guess I feel I've got it too good with him and its not worth it to try with someone else. Its a break from... i dont know.. to me it seems like a break from "loving eachother" and "acting like a couple" ... because now I have to supress my effection for him.. so I wont cross the boundary we've put between us. I guess we're deciding to wait untill we dont have the bounds of parenthood upon us, and have the time to really spend close physical time with eachother... sure I'm old, but I can drive untill I have surgery for my left eye, so I can see corectly... thus I'm bound to stay with my parents, because I cant drive, and my job isnt paying enough for me to buy an appartment of my own... I'm confused on all of this situation myself.. but trying hard to understand... that maybe, since in my own eyes, both of us are still "children" .. that our love isnt ready for us. so we've got to wait untill we've been stripped of our bounds before we can truely love eachother...

.....Uh.. I think that's it. If that got confusing for anyone... dont worry, it confuses me too.

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 04:50 AM

Well I'd go see the person you wanna see. its a break right?Then go out with that guy for abit, be with him awhile, and enjoy it and see how it is. I mean you may have the time of yourself!And this is the time to do so. And if you dont enjoy it then at least you explored other options! Or you could come date me!

kidding kidding lol

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:02 AM

yeah I know.. I just have a fear of breaking his heart. I swear to god I love him more than anything.. a year and a half it'll soon be, since we got together, ya know? ... I'm always so scared to hurt people, anyone! ... unless its someone I really dispise, then no biggy.. lol ... But yeah.. he has given me the okay if I were to see someone else... he ask me to tell him if i do and all... and I'm alright with that.

I'm just not thrilled to put effort into attempting to see someone else, when I know i'd probably have no chance at getting with that person. Its ALWAYS such a pain for me trying to get with someone... like starting all over again... and its NEVER them wanting me.. its me wanting them. .. sure I had people in highschool after me.. *coughmycomputerclasscough* ... but none of them I felt the same for. Its like I deliberatly pick the guy I've got NO chance with! .. The guy I'm with.. but not with now... is the first who had the same feelings for me when I had feelings for him. so it was more, the both of us liking eachother at the same time.. and I didnt have to play.. the game... dear god how I hate THE GAME. so yeah, there's my problem. lol

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:06 AM

babe, the game can be the funnest part. Just dont come onto the guy with "love" dont confess great huge emotional feelings for him, just flirt, ask if he wants to hang out with you sometime, that kind of stuff. Because once you start getting really really deep, with love and amazing feelings and that kind of jazz. The guy thinks that if he chooses to go out with you its set in stone that he will never see another woman again. You're still young right?Forget future husbands and go for boyfriends ((or girlfriends)).

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:12 AM

oh believe me.. I know never to come onto a guy with love.. I learned that the hard way when I was 12 years old! lol! I know the prosess all to well.. its just the time and work thats I've gotta put into it, that over the years with other men, that I just got totally sick of! ... but hey, I'm gonna give the new guy a try, but seriously I doubt anything would happen between us.. and I'm really not to serious about him.. I just think he's sweet, and for a good factor that he's religious. I've heard some other bad stuff about him... so those might come into play, in weather I figure he's worth a try.. lol

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:18 AM

Well, sorry to sound shallow but... Have fun for abit!There is nothing wrong with short little fun relationships

. It sounds like you need something like that, just some short little fun relationships. ..psst, heres my number

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:26 AM

?!?! holy crap. babe! you're making me blush!

.. anyway.. I've never been in a short little relationship before.. they've all been long and serious ones.. lol I guess I'm sorta a "little miss innocent" when it comes to those sorts of things... its always serious.. lol! I've never done flings.. or gone from guy to guy... but yeah.. you're right.. I've never really dont anything like that.. i gues it couldnt hurt just to try ^_^;; *dies*

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:29 AM

You dont know what you're missing! Long relationships are good but when you're young, you dont wanna set your whole life in stone, date, meet people, kiss, all that other stuff! live for the moment and all that rot

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:36 AM

I'll do that.. lol I guess I've always seen myself as.. well.. old! and its taken me a while to realise.. that yeah I am young! ... I just.... feell.. OLD! I've forced myself to grow up so fast... what with graduating 2 years early, and now in college... I feel like I'm in my 20's... but I'm not! lol! ... But anyway, thanks Valkrie, I feel alot better about everything ^_^

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:38 AM

No problem!But if you're ever anywhere near Victoria BC You owe me!

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:44 AM

Ah! You live in BC!? I wanna go there so badly! because just about everyone I've met online who's close to me, lives there! lol! ... okay we're filling up this thread like a chat room... we gotta get on Instant Messenger and talk sometime babe!

Download msn, you gotsa! Here! MSN DOWNLOAD ME! Hehe. ^_^

Valkrie Of Light · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:51 AM

Sorry, I can't download. This isnt my computer, my Instructor is just lending me it until my back gets better

Seraph Sephiroth · Jan 8th, 2003, 05:56 AM

aw that's a bummer! .. well.. I hope the mods dont get pissed at us, for talking back and forth like this ^_^ ... I know they'd kill me at the Zelda Forever forums. lol!!

Jan 7th, 2003, 11:48 PM	#41
DSgamer here and there Joined: Dec 2002 Location: ps2f, where else? Age: 35 Posts: 1,347	having a relationship is way better than beign alone, well to me at least, i'm in 8th grade and been going out with girl since 6th grade. I really enjoy having a g/f around, specially if they live like 3 houses down from urs __________________

Jan 8th, 2003, 04:25 AM	#44
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	aww! I'm so happy for you Valkrie! hugs Its a shame I couldnt catch you ^_~ giggles just kidding. anyway, I'm sorta drowning in my own depression over my relationship or whatever you can call it now... but I try not to bring my depression onto the forums, unless I need advice. So I wont get into it unless anyone really wants to know.. which I doubt anyone would. lol! Anyway yeah.. ^_^; __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 04:31 AM	#46
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	well.. that's just it.. i cant call it a "relationship" anymore.. since we're "taking a break" ..yet still talking to eachother.. i just have trouble supressing my feelings.. cause I want to show them more than anything.. but cant for fear of ..of... god, I dont even know really what I'm afraid of.. lol its all screwed. ^_^; __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 04:45 AM	#48
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	I suppose... but he swears on all that he is that even durring the time that we'll be broken up, that he'll never go for anyone else.. not even try... i.. on the other hand.. know someone I'd like to see... but would rather not even take the risk... I guess I feel I've got it too good with him and its not worth it to try with someone else. Its a break from... i dont know.. to me it seems like a break from "loving eachother" and "acting like a couple" ... because now I have to supress my effection for him.. so I wont cross the boundary we've put between us. I guess we're deciding to wait untill we dont have the bounds of parenthood upon us, and have the time to really spend close physical time with eachother... sure I'm old, but I can drive untill I have surgery for my left eye, so I can see corectly... thus I'm bound to stay with my parents, because I cant drive, and my job isnt paying enough for me to buy an appartment of my own... I'm confused on all of this situation myself.. but trying hard to understand... that maybe, since in my own eyes, both of us are still "children" .. that our love isnt ready for us. so we've got to wait untill we've been stripped of our bounds before we can truely love eachother... .....Uh.. I think that's it. If that got confusing for anyone... dont worry, it confuses me too. __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:02 AM	#50
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	yeah I know.. I just have a fear of breaking his heart. I swear to god I love him more than anything.. a year and a half it'll soon be, since we got together, ya know? ... I'm always so scared to hurt people, anyone! ... unless its someone I really dispise, then no biggy.. lol ... But yeah.. he has given me the okay if I were to see someone else... he ask me to tell him if i do and all... and I'm alright with that. I'm just not thrilled to put effort into attempting to see someone else, when I know i'd probably have no chance at getting with that person. Its ALWAYS such a pain for me trying to get with someone... like starting all over again... and its NEVER them wanting me.. its me wanting them. .. sure I had people in highschool after me.. coughmycomputerclasscough ... but none of them I felt the same for. Its like I deliberatly pick the guy I've got NO chance with! .. The guy I'm with.. but not with now... is the first who had the same feelings for me when I had feelings for him. so it was more, the both of us liking eachother at the same time.. and I didnt have to play.. the game... dear god how I hate THE GAME. so yeah, there's my problem. lol __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

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Jan 8th, 2003, 02:05 AM	#42
DragonSphere Beneath the Shadow Joined: Jan 2002 Age: 36 Posts: 818	I guess I also join with the other single members in this thread; I have yet to have a g/f and am 15. It doesn't bother me too much, like it does to my friends, but it sometimes makes me envy their so-called "luck" on finding wonderfully attractive mates. I just don't understand how they do it...but yes, I'm beginning to accept that my time will come eventually.

Jan 8th, 2003, 03:16 AM	#43
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	Well lol. As of today, I am no longer single! I have a wonderful girfriend now how respects my intrests unlike the last two slimeballs... Anyways, I couldnt be happier!

Jan 8th, 2003, 04:27 AM	#45
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	Well my rule of thumb is this. If a relationship brings depression, it's obviously not a good thing. Why would a good thing make you depressed? But dont listen to me, I'm not the best with romantic situations lol. Give me a peice of beef jerky and sharp steel to a dress and flower anyday lol

Jan 8th, 2003, 04:35 AM	#47
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	what sort of break? A see other people break?

Jan 8th, 2003, 04:50 AM	#49
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	Well I'd go see the person you wanna see. its a break right?Then go out with that guy for abit, be with him awhile, and enjoy it and see how it is. I mean you may have the time of yourself!And this is the time to do so. And if you dont enjoy it then at least you explored other options! Or you could come date me! kidding kidding lol

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:06 AM	#51
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	babe, the game can be the funnest part. Just dont come onto the guy with "love" dont confess great huge emotional feelings for him, just flirt, ask if he wants to hang out with you sometime, that kind of stuff. Because once you start getting really really deep, with love and amazing feelings and that kind of jazz. The guy thinks that if he chooses to go out with you its set in stone that he will never see another woman again. You're still young right?Forget future husbands and go for boyfriends ((or girlfriends)).

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:12 AM	#52
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	oh believe me.. I know never to come onto a guy with love.. I learned that the hard way when I was 12 years old! lol! I know the prosess all to well.. its just the time and work thats I've gotta put into it, that over the years with other men, that I just got totally sick of! ... but hey, I'm gonna give the new guy a try, but seriously I doubt anything would happen between us.. and I'm really not to serious about him.. I just think he's sweet, and for a good factor that he's religious. I've heard some other bad stuff about him... so those might come into play, in weather I figure he's worth a try.. lol __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:18 AM	#53
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	Well, sorry to sound shallow but... Have fun for abit!There is nothing wrong with short little fun relationships . It sounds like you need something like that, just some short little fun relationships. ..psst, heres my number

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:26 AM	#54
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	?!?! holy crap. babe! you're making me blush! .. anyway.. I've never been in a short little relationship before.. they've all been long and serious ones.. lol I guess I'm sorta a "little miss innocent" when it comes to those sorts of things... its always serious.. lol! I've never done flings.. or gone from guy to guy... but yeah.. you're right.. I've never really dont anything like that.. i gues it couldnt hurt just to try ^_^;; dies __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:29 AM	#55
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	You dont know what you're missing! Long relationships are good but when you're young, you dont wanna set your whole life in stone, date, meet people, kiss, all that other stuff! live for the moment and all that rot

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:36 AM	#56
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	I'll do that.. lol I guess I've always seen myself as.. well.. old! and its taken me a while to realise.. that yeah I am young! ... I just.... feell.. OLD! I've forced myself to grow up so fast... what with graduating 2 years early, and now in college... I feel like I'm in my 20's... but I'm not! lol! ... But anyway, thanks Valkrie, I feel alot better about everything ^_^ __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:38 AM	#57
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	No problem!But if you're ever anywhere near Victoria BC You owe me!

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:44 AM	#58
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	Ah! You live in BC!? I wanna go there so badly! because just about everyone I've met online who's close to me, lives there! lol! ... okay we're filling up this thread like a chat room... we gotta get on Instant Messenger and talk sometime babe! Download msn, you gotsa! Here! MSN DOWNLOAD ME! Hehe. ^_^ __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:51 AM	#59
Valkrie Of Light Registered User Joined: Jan 2003 Posts: 77	Sorry, I can't download. This isnt my computer, my Instructor is just lending me it until my back gets better

Jan 8th, 2003, 05:56 AM	#60
Seraph Sephiroth Member Joined: Jan 2003 Location: Nibelheim, ShinRa Mansion Age: 40 Posts: 136	aw that's a bummer! .. well.. I hope the mods dont get pissed at us, for talking back and forth like this ^_^ ... I know they'd kill me at the Zelda Forever forums. lol!! __________________ "Let's take back the planet together..." -Seraphim Sephiroth Seraphim Sephiroth's Sephiroth Shrine

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