personality v.s looks

fantasytiger · Dec 9th, 2002, 02:57 PM

hey does size,look,and income really mater

may be i am crazy but I think personality does

........ku ku kupo ku po

ssjtrunks13 · Dec 9th, 2002, 03:12 PM

I think it does too. My g/f may not look like what other people would want, but I like her also because of how much stuff we have in common.

Lost_myth · Dec 9th, 2002, 04:42 PM

Personality makes the looks, trust me..

that's just what it is

Frozen · Dec 9th, 2002, 04:57 PM

Both are important, but personality should be the most important. Unfortunately, it does not in our actual society.

Gadzoox · Dec 9th, 2002, 05:05 PM

Personality is number one; and I hate to admit it but appearance is also a semi-biggy. Though 99.9% of the time the personality /makes/ the looks better (or worse in some instances). So it all really depends on personality. Also I've been told I have really wierd taste in guys so Im just blathering now. Haha

ssjtrunks13 · Dec 9th, 2002, 05:16 PM

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Originally posted by ZeroSniper
Like Gad said, one accounts for the other, in a way.

I'd have to agree with this. I know lots of ladies that I would have gladly went out with if it wasn't for their pesonality.

Spank-A-Thon · Dec 9th, 2002, 06:17 PM

I think it has to be a bit of both. A fantastic person can make someone appear more attractive, but conversely a bad personality can make someone 'ugly'.

That being said though, if you are to be with someone, they have to 'float your boat' in some way. I don't believe you can be with someone unless you can look at them and 'fancy' something about them.

I went out with a girl who I didn't find attractive, although to be fair many other people did. We got on so well - it was a pure attraction of personality. Problem was we became more like best friends or siblings, than lovers and thus it never went anywhere. We're still great mates though to this day.

It's irrelevant whether or not someone lives up to the classical idea of 'beauty' - what's more important is that you can find something beautiful and attractive about that person. But without that, from my experience, a proper relationship simply doesn't work.

- S

Frozen · Dec 9th, 2002, 06:51 PM

I, in the other hand, always liked an "ugly" girl in highschool for her charming personality, but never had the balls to tell her.

Later on I regreted it, since in a chat she told me she would have liked to have something with me by then. And I thought she did not like me at all...

this is a little out of topic, but the topic reminded me of that situation.

MakgSnake · Dec 9th, 2002, 06:56 PM

Personality counts alot, but so does looks for me atleast. I dunno, I am just like that. She has to be hot plus good nature. (Hard to find but still...)

Lost_myth · Dec 9th, 2002, 07:13 PM

I really agree with Spank-a-thon. He said what I couldn't put into words.

REChick14 · Dec 9th, 2002, 08:36 PM

With me looks dont matter at all. You have to have a great personality. I know some guys that may look blazin and all but when it comes to strike up a conversation it goes downhill. Its what you do that makes you beautiful. Im still trying to find that special guy...

Deathwatchz · Dec 9th, 2002, 09:10 PM

id have to say that a personality is very important to a situation, but it doesnt have a total influence on the relationship. i have fallen in love with some girls who have MAJOR personality flaws, but it wasnt apparent to me until other people pointed it out. to me, it is who i can actually connect with, and i have to admit (not gonna lie to look good), her looks will be involved, but i have passed up some GREAT looking girls cause they were some B!@^(#*$... to me, a personality has a major thing in it, but sometimes love can be blind, both to the personality AND the looks... it dont matter WHO she is, WHAT she looks like, and HOW she acts, cuz ya love her anyway.... forget what other people think.

IcyMourdor · Dec 9th, 2002, 09:23 PM

Well, if you ask my friends, they'd say that my gf has neither.

I'm all for personality. I don't care how hot you are, if you are like a block of wood in a conversation, GOODBYE!

Deathwatchz · Dec 9th, 2002, 10:31 PM

I cant STAND that... i hate having to explain myself in conversations too. i have to have a girl whos intelligent enough to know what the he** im saying. most people dont get me on that one, but for the people who go to school with idiots, you know what im talking about. same thing if they know whats going on, but they dont say anything to you. talking to a brick wall isnt fun.......

Suzuki_Fanboy · Dec 9th, 2002, 10:53 PM

Well...to me its both. But it's like...85% personality and 15% looks. 15% because...it matters a little bit. Most of the time though, a good personality can enhance a girl's looks. A good example: At the beginning of last school year, there was this one girl who I didn't really find attractive at all...then through one of my friends (who was also her friend) we started talking, and now we're semi-good friends. Now I think she's pretty hot...so that could show a way personality enhances looks...

jjmoohead · Dec 10th, 2002, 12:11 AM

Well i admit that i would rather be with a girl with good looks then someone who needs alot of make up. Lets say i see a nice looking girl in class or something and decide to talk to her, well i will then see about the personality, thats a big second place trait for me.

Not saying I wouldnt date someone else, but I just like a girl that takes care of herself.

Rei · Dec 10th, 2002, 02:35 AM

Personality is important when you get to know a person. You can't pass your time with someone who's completely dumb or annoying. But most of the time the appearance of a person is what makes you do the first step.

fantasytiger · Dec 10th, 2002, 11:58 AM

i am so glad that there are people out there who's mind have not been poisoned by the media.
i myself do not consider myself a drop dead gorgeous person but I am not but ugly either i am a hapy medium
what do you think? deathwatchz lmao

j/k

Frozen I understand how you feel i had a crush on my friend his name was christin and I cared for him sooo much but he graduated befor me and went back to pureto rico and i never got to tell him how I felt even after i moved on it still hurts and I still want to tell him so I can know if he felt the same I think he did. So be glad at least you got to tell the person.

ssjtrunks13 · Dec 10th, 2002, 12:01 PM

I had a crush on this girl I met in 9th grade and thought maybe we could become more than friends, but ever since I moved I don't know what she thinks of me leaving without a trace. I've wanted to tell her for a long time now(about 3yrs.)

fantasytiger · Dec 10th, 2002, 12:07 PM

i think i got you beat i have been wanting to tell him for 5 years
but he did not leave with out a trace
he left me Ziggy

( mogs were his all time fav character ) ( I think

)

Dec 9th, 2002, 02:57 PM	#1
fantasytiger Dark Queen Joined: Dec 2002 Location: in your dreams Age: 37 Posts: 589	personality v.s looks hey does size,look,and income really mater may be i am crazy but I think personality does ........ku ku kupo ku po

Dec 9th, 2002, 04:42 PM	#3
Lost_myth Every One Dies Alone Joined: May 2002 Location: In the depths of existance where the hot magma flows. Age: 37 Posts: 1,057	Personality makes the looks, trust me.. that's just what it is __________________ All around me are familiar faces Worn out places Worn out faces Bright & early for the daily races Going nowhere Going nowhere Their tears R filling up their glasses No Xpression No Xpression Hide my head I want to drown my sorrows No 2morrow No 2morrow & I find it kindof funny I find it kindof sad. These dreams in which i'm dying, R the best I've ever had

Dec 9th, 2002, 04:57 PM	#4
Frozen Dante May Cry Joined: May 2002 Location: America's Guard of Honor: 82nd Airborne Division Age: 40 Posts: 1,523	Both are important, but personality should be the most important. Unfortunately, it does not in our actual society. __________________

Dec 9th, 2002, 06:17 PM	#7
Spank-A-Thon Carpe Diem Baby! Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Liverpool, UK Age: 49 Posts: 664	I think it has to be a bit of both. A fantastic person can make someone appear more attractive, but conversely a bad personality can make someone 'ugly'. That being said though, if you are to be with someone, they have to 'float your boat' in some way. I don't believe you can be with someone unless you can look at them and 'fancy' something about them. I went out with a girl who I didn't find attractive, although to be fair many other people did. We got on so well - it was a pure attraction of personality. Problem was we became more like best friends or siblings, than lovers and thus it never went anywhere. We're still great mates though to this day. It's irrelevant whether or not someone lives up to the classical idea of 'beauty' - what's more important is that you can find something beautiful and attractive about that person. But without that, from my experience, a proper relationship simply doesn't work. - S __________________

Dec 9th, 2002, 06:51 PM	#8
Frozen Dante May Cry Joined: May 2002 Location: America's Guard of Honor: 82nd Airborne Division Age: 40 Posts: 1,523	I, in the other hand, always liked an "ugly" girl in highschool for her charming personality, but never had the balls to tell her. Later on I regreted it, since in a chat she told me she would have liked to have something with me by then. And I thought she did not like me at all... this is a little out of topic, but the topic reminded me of that situation. __________________

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Dec 9th, 2002, 03:12 PM	#2
ssjtrunks13 Results May Vary Joined: Sep 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 2,712	I think it does too. My g/f may not look like what other people would want, but I like her also because of how much stuff we have in common.

Dec 9th, 2002, 05:05 PM	#5
Gadzoox goon squad Joined: Jun 2002 Location: Canada Age: 39 Posts: 1,673	Personality is number one; and I hate to admit it but appearance is also a semi-biggy. Though 99.9% of the time the personality /makes/ the looks better (or worse in some instances). So it all really depends on personality. Also I've been told I have really wierd taste in guys so Im just blathering now. Haha

Dec 9th, 2002, 06:56 PM	#9
MakgSnake Senior Member Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Mississuaga, Canada. Posts: 3,554	Personality counts alot, but so does looks for me atleast. I dunno, I am just like that. She has to be hot plus good nature. (Hard to find but still...) __________________

Dec 9th, 2002, 07:13 PM	#10
Lost_myth Every One Dies Alone Joined: May 2002 Location: In the depths of existance where the hot magma flows. Age: 37 Posts: 1,057	I really agree with Spank-a-thon. He said what I couldn't put into words. __________________ All around me are familiar faces Worn out places Worn out faces Bright & early for the daily races Going nowhere Going nowhere Their tears R filling up their glasses No Xpression No Xpression Hide my head I want to drown my sorrows No 2morrow No 2morrow & I find it kindof funny I find it kindof sad. These dreams in which i'm dying, R the best I've ever had

Dec 9th, 2002, 08:36 PM	#11
REChick14 Ex-S.T.A.R.S Officer Joined: Jun 2002 Location: City Of Survival Age: 36 Posts: 828	Personality Vs Looks With me looks dont matter at all. You have to have a great personality. I know some guys that may look blazin and all but when it comes to strike up a conversation it goes downhill. Its what you do that makes you beautiful. Im still trying to find that special guy... __________________

Dec 9th, 2002, 09:10 PM	#12
Deathwatchz Chylde of Darkness Joined: Dec 2002 Location: Detroit, MI Age: 39 Posts: 436	id have to say that a personality is very important to a situation, but it doesnt have a total influence on the relationship. i have fallen in love with some girls who have MAJOR personality flaws, but it wasnt apparent to me until other people pointed it out. to me, it is who i can actually connect with, and i have to admit (not gonna lie to look good), her looks will be involved, but i have passed up some GREAT looking girls cause they were some B!@^(#*$... to me, a personality has a major thing in it, but sometimes love can be blind, both to the personality AND the looks... it dont matter WHO she is, WHAT she looks like, and HOW she acts, cuz ya love her anyway.... forget what other people think. __________________ The Dark One

Dec 9th, 2002, 09:23 PM	#13
IcyMourdor Cream Puff Joined: Jan 2002 Location: Stevens Point, Wisconsin Age: 38 Posts: 2,713	Well, if you ask my friends, they'd say that my gf has neither. I'm all for personality. I don't care how hot you are, if you are like a block of wood in a conversation, GOODBYE! __________________ You will walk in fire, earth, water, and air, through temptation, and at last into despair and desolation.

Dec 9th, 2002, 10:31 PM	#14
Deathwatchz Chylde of Darkness Joined: Dec 2002 Location: Detroit, MI Age: 39 Posts: 436	I cant STAND that... i hate having to explain myself in conversations too. i have to have a girl whos intelligent enough to know what the he** im saying. most people dont get me on that one, but for the people who go to school with idiots, you know what im talking about. same thing if they know whats going on, but they dont say anything to you. talking to a brick wall isnt fun....... __________________ The Dark One

Dec 9th, 2002, 10:53 PM	#15
Suzuki_Fanboy Senior Member Joined: Dec 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 409	Well...to me its both. But it's like...85% personality and 15% looks. 15% because...it matters a little bit. Most of the time though, a good personality can enhance a girl's looks. A good example: At the beginning of last school year, there was this one girl who I didn't really find attractive at all...then through one of my friends (who was also her friend) we started talking, and now we're semi-good friends. Now I think she's pretty hot...so that could show a way personality enhances looks...

Dec 10th, 2002, 12:11 AM	#16
jjmoohead MAGIC MONKEY Joined: Jul 2002 Location: Brandon, Manitoba, Canada Age: 42 Posts: 1,114	Well i admit that i would rather be with a girl with good looks then someone who needs alot of make up. Lets say i see a nice looking girl in class or something and decide to talk to her, well i will then see about the personality, thats a big second place trait for me. Not saying I wouldnt date someone else, but I just like a girl that takes care of herself. __________________ The Magic Is Coming!

Dec 10th, 2002, 02:35 AM	#17
Rei EVA 00 Pilot Joined: Jan 2002 Location: NERV Age: 41 Posts: 2,239	Personality is important when you get to know a person. You can't pass your time with someone who's completely dumb or annoying. But most of the time the appearance of a person is what makes you do the first step.

Dec 10th, 2002, 11:58 AM	#18
fantasytiger Dark Queen Joined: Dec 2002 Location: in your dreams Age: 37 Posts: 589	i am so glad that there are people out there who's mind have not been poisoned by the media. i myself do not consider myself a drop dead gorgeous person but I am not but ugly either i am a hapy medium what do you think? deathwatchz lmao j/k Frozen I understand how you feel i had a crush on my friend his name was christin and I cared for him sooo much but he graduated befor me and went back to pureto rico and i never got to tell him how I felt even after i moved on it still hurts and I still want to tell him so I can know if he felt the same I think he did. So be glad at least you got to tell the person.

Dec 10th, 2002, 12:01 PM	#19
ssjtrunks13 Results May Vary Joined: Sep 2002 Age: 38 Posts: 2,712	I had a crush on this girl I met in 9th grade and thought maybe we could become more than friends, but ever since I moved I don't know what she thinks of me leaving without a trace. I've wanted to tell her for a long time now(about 3yrs.)

Dec 10th, 2002, 12:07 PM	#20
fantasytiger Dark Queen Joined: Dec 2002 Location: in your dreams Age: 37 Posts: 589	i think i got you beat i have been wanting to tell him for 5 years but he did not leave with out a trace he left me Ziggy ( mogs were his all time fav character ) ( I think )

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