I must dissagree witht that "theory"... I was in quite a happy relationship being 19 and being w/ a 22 year old woman.. This 22 year old woman behaved more like a 16 year old than i ever was... I was the one trying for a relationship, I wanted it serious/tied down... But she was the one who acted like a child... Which is unfortunate, because i thought by going older i would get rid of the childish factor... but alas.. whether male or female.. there are always people who will defy a stereotype and to try and classify this into an age situation.. is just not possible.... Everyone matures at different rates... I had a lot of shit to deal w/ at a young age so now i am naturally more mature than the "average" 19 year old... Doesn't mean that i'm not a jackass... becausei most certainly am.. but generalizations in this category dont seem to work in my opinion
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