As a person gets older they use discretion more, and that would include what you talk about on a message board. But hey, i agree with Frozen, if your willing to follow whatever is leading you to do what your doing, Betts, then be willing to accept the consequences. Its not like you can tell him to do one thing or another, he is gonna do whatever he wants, at least he knows what he is up against.
Ive had attractive teachers over the years, but they are there to do a job, and nothing more, if not, they will be moving on eventually.