True to all, and without a doubt the reason its worth being somewhat speculative in seeking a person who at least exemplifies your own character traits is why be with someone who doesnt really match your attitude and personality (in my case subdued, passive, laid back, relatively low key under most situations)? They say opposites attract, and while for some thats true, i generally am not attracted to someone who is a real fast paced, high anxiety, causes problems instead of solves them, a chronic whiner/loser in the game of love and finance, where the game is really played.... Upbeat, articulate types are what i seek and need, a interest in the arts, classical and all types of music, and a level head on their shoulders... But without a doubt the perfect person is only a thought pattern, certainly not a given that there is one out there. Now being a believer in a Supreme Being, i do feel led to think that there is someone up there who can arrange things...
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